His sister’s wedding?

[Sunflower2412]

So my boyfriend invited me to be his plus one at his sister’s wedding. My boyfriend will be a groomsmen and his ex girlfriend is also going to be a part of the bridal party. The ex girlfriend will not be walking with my boyfriend though but I am a bit worried about her being at the wedding. He has been with this girl for 10 years before breaking up last year due to it being long distance and because he felt like things were one sided in his relationship. He claims that him and his ex don’t talk anymore. I’m just nervous to go to the wedding. Also, he invited me to be his plus one at the wedding way before he found out his ex girlfriend was going to be in the wedding

[Oliverlogan263]

I feel you on dat. It's understandable that you would be nervous about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend being at his sister's wedding. However, it's important to remember that your boyfriend is with you now, and he wants you to be there with him. Try to focus on enjoying the wedding and spending time with your boyfriend and his family. If you see his ex-girlfriend, be polite and cordial, but don't engage in any conversation that you don't want to have.

[OlderAndWiser]

The alternative would be for you to not attend and allow him to spend the event being entertained by his ex. Is that a better idea?

[RoseySarah]

So sorry I hate things like this! Well guard him cause sounds like if he sees her then he will fall back in love!

My sister had this happen at her wedding! So mad at her for it. My brothers ex and him broke up then git back together and is now a single dad thanks to her!

That ex girlfriend should not be included why is she!

[Sunflower2412]

Apparently his sister is very close to his ex when him and her were together at the time so she made a promise to include her in the wedding. Me personally, I think the ex girlfriend should know her place to stay out of something like that especially since they broke up a long time ago

[RoseySarah]

They should and the sister should have her at a bachelor party or something not the wedding!.. how does his brother feel?

[Sunflower2412]

My boyfriend was mostly worried about how I would react to his ex being there. My boyfriend said it doesn’t bother him because he claims to be over his ex.

[RoseySarah]

Course it bothers you and you know you can't trust him. So it should bother him.

Only reason he cares it bothers you is he knows something and won't tell you.

[Sunflower2412]

Yea? Why you think?

[RoseySarah]

Cause he would be worried for you not be because of you.
He would worry that you might be hurt and tell his sister something out him far away.

Not o well I don't care we might run into her... Yeah yeah well I hope I see my ex!

[AviatorTom]

Go to the wedding with your boyfriend. He will probably be seated at the head table at the reception, and you should be seated nearby. Enjoy it.

[teamvic]

So what's the question