Some lady at work (a while ago) when I brought up having kids told me that she suggests that I don’t have any did she mean it in a bad way?

[Anonymous]

She is 53 years old and has twins both 9 year old. I think she told me that because my personality is so shy people assume I have mental problems all the time but besides bad social anxiety I don’t.

[Guy13]

Yes as there is no good intent in saying that. this is someone who did it wrong or has no clue spouting off. Ignore her !!!

[Asker]

Why would she say that? Could it be because I’m overweight?

[Asker]

I was talking about having kids in the future and she was like “I suggest you don’t have them” but other than that she was always a very nice lady and said hi to me all the time.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s more she’s regretting having kids or finding it so hard that she advice you don’t do the same ”mistake” she did.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s my intial thought

[LazerBean]

There's no real way to tell without some sort of context.

[Monalisa77]

Some people can surprise you

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Monalisa77]

Well when I first met the team in my work, they all seemed really nice. But as I got to know them they came across really bitchy and quite personal which made me paranoid

[Asker]

She was always nice to me and continued to be. But I wonder why she told me that

[Monalisa77]

Ye shame they were too, but like I say they can still surprise you