My son always tells me that because I decided to give birth to him that now he has to work and go through life and that he never wanted to come?

[Anonymous]

Why does he always say things like this its like he regrets that i gave birth to him i told him to be grateful that i gave him life but he always says he never even wanted to experience life or come to the world i dont know what to tell him anymore.

[Anonymous]

That could be a sign of depression. It also sounds like he lacks a male role model and / or a father. That's why you 'don't know what to tell him anymore'. Also when you say stuff like 'be grateful that i gave him life' that will cause him to seriously resent you even more.

Your son senses something isn't right about the way things are. Think about it. You work all of those hours for barely any pay, but you see stupid game shows where people answer dumb questions and win more than you can earn in a life time. Money is an illusion. Something that may, or may not help is to buy him the book 'Seed Money: The Law of Tenfold Return and How it Works by John Hoshor.' and 'How to Have "Unexpected" Income by John Wolcott Adams.'

Many rich people have known about this for ages. It's why you always see rich people donating to charity as well. My friend followed the process and the next day they got a message about being owed 250...

[lightbulb27]

that reminds me of a video I saw of a boy that talked like that. kinda scary. time to talk to a psychiatrist?

I'd wonder if he took on some negativity during development from during in womb+. I'd wonder why he feels that way.

I don't recall video, maybe my wife does.

@midnightmoon05

[Asker]

he's 17 and I don't know he always tells me this i think it might be something deeper going on with him i just hope he finds peace with life one day

[NotTacocaT6969]

You did force him to exist in a crumbling civilization on a planet that our species has beat the living crap out of for generations.


And that’s just naming the simplest issues…


Your son is focussing on one aspect of existing and it has gotten to his head like got got to mine when I was a teenager.


He needs to learn perspective in order to get over it, and that’s not going to be easy.


Nobody asks to be born.

[FunkyMonkee]

I used to have a brother like that! From the day he was born, he SCREAMED his head off!! The kid screamed so much, he had to have a hernia operation by the time he was 2!!
Last we saw of him was about 51 years later. He stared out the kitchen window with a coffee inn his hand. About 11:00 a. m., he walked out the back door never to be seen again. Alive! He drove up river somewhere and jumped off a bridge!!

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a spoiled brat. I don't know how old he is, but I think some hard working or being exposed to actual poverty and suffering would do him some good.

[MadAndBankrupt]

He has a point though.