Are you always the initiator in everything you do?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Nobody initiates conversation with me and I'm tired of being the initiator. I'm used to being ignored and feeling like a burden to people. It happens enough everywhere that I'm convinced that I am the problem. I'm starting to understand why nobody wants to be with me. If I just died, I'm sure people would move on quickly enough.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Almost always because if I had to wait for others, nothing would ever get done.

To be blunt, I rarely trust people to initiate things, and even more rarely I think they initiate them well. Like they say, you want something done well, you do it yourself.

[Juxtapose]

I have felt the same way but I assure you every time I have thought that I was dead wrong. People care more about you than you think!

Go talk to the people you care about and tell them how you feel.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

What would that solve? If they cared, they would already do it.

[Juxtapose]

They could be thinking the same thing about something you're not doing that you didn't even think of. You shouldn't be so harsh on them.

[Guy13]

I am not always the initiator but I am always the one making certain things begin and conclude properly. I rarely initiate and sm more likely to Slow or Stop measure something than to initiate it. Even so, I’m creative and playful in those movements

[Wise4myage]

No I am not, and it should be 50-50.

[Wise4myage]

Start being the initiator more often and see how that goes.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Nobody initiates conversation with me and I'm tired of being the initiator. It can go for months to years at a time unless I take action.