How to deal with family during your pregnancy?

Anonymous
I just told my family that I’m pregnant. My sister is just too much for me lol. She always has been. She tends too annoy me. She is overly dramatic and just so extra. Her emotions are too much for me and it’s overwhelming.
My niece was overly excited and asked if she could do the gender reveal and I found that to be a good idea.
My sister wanted to do it but we told her no because she is not good at hiding things. Then she got all upset. She was crying cause she was happy but I asked her if she was crying because she can’t do the gender reveal and she said yes.
Point is that she acts like such a child. In the end we agreed that my niece is doing it.
But I just don’t need this and all this stress.
She’s my older sister so in a sense she also acts like my mom sometimes but now I find that she’s going to be annoying lol. Cause she send me a text ( I know she means well and just wants to help out) but the text made me feel like she is treating me like a child.
Like I do not need this.
We haven’t told my bf’s mother yet but she is similar to my sister.
Before the baby, the mom is just very clingy, needy and treats my boyfriend like a child himself.
I had a talk with my sister but I just find that she is going to be stressing me out, as well as my bf’s mom.
I don't know what to do.
How to deal with family during your pregnancy?
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