What is Something You would Do with a Sibling who is Relentless and Now is Barely Contacting You?

[Paris13]

*****I am Thinking in the Lines of Jealousy and Resentment. xx

[meetkitty123]

Nothing...

rude or unkind. Just keep things respectful. Don't turn your back on them leave them included. If they want to talk stick to peaceful subjects. If they feel like coming around welcome them as often as possible keep gatherings at a public place this way if either you or they feel they need to leave you can do so easily and peacefully.

[Paris13]

I realized with Going to the Doctors that my Sister quit Drinking and is Dieting and is Going out More. She seems a Bit Better Now with Good Results Too from the Doctor so We are Better at tleast for this Week. lolxxoo

[Jennz6]

My only sibling, my sister died several years ago

[Paris13]

I am So Sorry, Sweetheart. xx

[Jennz6]

@Paris13 thank you Paris

[Paris13]

Welcome, @jennz6 xx

[Jennz6]

@Paris13 xx 💋

[Paris13]

@jennz6 Huggs and Kisses. xxoo

[Jennz6]

Thank you @Paris13 for the MHO

[Paris13]

@jennz6 My Pleasure, sweetheart. xxoo

[es20490446e]

I think being in bad terms with someone is a waste of energy, no matter how bitchy that person is.

I judge if I can share my time with that person, but never being resented by them.

I also try to be the first person being nice to the other, by listening first to what they have to say before judging them.

I always have time to say it's bullshit afterwards, but just the fact of listening changes all the dynamic. Sometimes the only thing a person needs to improve is to feel listened, not that you agree with them.

[TDILS]

You might be thinking to forgive your sibling. Also, communicate with your sibling, asking him/her if he/she is fine, try to accept him/her as your family (because he/she really is)

Also in your own community, try to include him/her , and give him/her opportunity to grow up there, and tell others to respect him/her as they respect you

Let the jealously be gone from him/her, and keep on praying for your sibling. Best wishes for your family😇

[OlderAndWiser]

I have a sister who I exclude from my life as much as possible. She is a miserable person and she wants everyone around her to be miserable. She is a backstabber, a scoundrel, and a snake in the grass. I see her from a distance at funerals and occasionally for a special event such as my mom's birthday, but I don't speak to her.

If someone wants to be a negative influence in your life, they can succeed ONLY if you give them an opportunity. And I try to eliminate her opportunities.

[es20490446e]

Anyways, even if you decide not to spend time with them, it's a waste being angry at them.

[OlderAndWiser]

@es20490446e Exactly! It's devoting some of my energy to someone who should be unimportant and who doesn't deserve my attention.

[clampfan101]

No need to fuel the fire. I’ll talk to them whenever they want a respectful conversation, and remind them that I will on occasion if they ever do. (I’ll also try to remind them just before needing to end a conversation due to it going sour if that happens.)

[Sirenboobzilla]

Hard to say. My brother and I have a great relationship. I'd keep my lines open to him at the very least

[Paris13]

Yes, Keep it Civil. xx

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'm sorry. My sisters and I have never been close. I was raised mostly by father while they were raised by their dad, my mom, their step mom, and then their guardian. I don't have much in common with them except that we share the same mom.

[Sevenpointfive]

i think you need to expand on how she's relentless because that just doesn't make sense. she has to like something

[Orion76]

I love my one brother and my sisters my life is so crazy I barely call them. I think they gave up on me.

[exitseven]

I have not spoken to my brother in ten years.

[es20490446e]

Just make them feel listened.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Ask them if they blame me for our mother abandoning us because my father was rich and she only had me to take his money

[AngryCarl2]

If she's barely contacting me that's good, right?

[tonamimargaux]

Oh deep. For me I back out too and not contact unless they do

[Jamie05rhs]

Be relentless as well. In love.

[Paris13]

Always. xx

[FunkyMonkee]

Feed them to alligators.

[TrillXHippy]

It wouldn’t bother me

[CubaPirate]

Nothing as I'm an only child ☹

[Nominal]

Nothing. juat live your life.

[Blues36]

always happens between siblings

[Massageman]

I;m an only.

[LemiaOfThunder]

not sure

[beebella]

Leave them be.