Can emotions and feelings push people away?

[Justneedtokno]

[Boomchakalaca]

I have trouble with emotions and it is hard for me to digest things. Speaking with emotions first, leaves me no room to actually think about it. It does push people away and hinder relationships. Of course, I am still working on it.

Yes, nobody likes an emotional person or how they speak with their emotions rather then factual evidence. I don’t want to get into politics, but you could guess which side is more emotionally stable 😂 and its an example of speaking through emotions

[Justneedtokno]

Making rational decisions and considering all the facts and then putting thoughts and emotions to the decision you make given all the evidence I think that’s the type of person I am

[Greenbean27]

Yes, out of control emotions can push people away. It is one of the major reasons people avoid talking about politics or religion.

[Juxtapose]

People who can't control their emotions are weak-willed morons who don't deserve to be called adults.

[Justneedtokno]

Well, damn, I think it’s been hard lately, because I’m still grieving over my mother’s death. I live alone so I don’t bring anybody into it but I hate when people ask how are you doing? How are you feeling and don’t really want the real answer so don’t ask

[Juxtapose]

Well I meant more normal circumstances, obviously your mother dying is going to shatter your heart.

[Justneedtokno]

But you’re absolutely right

[Juxtapose]

Yeah, but I wouldn't beat yourself up too bad if you find yourself acting abnormal because you lost one of your creators.

[Justneedtokno]

I mean, I’m just reading what you wrote. I carry my adult duties as a regular human being. Go to work pay my bills entertain her whatever go out when I can. They are just some moments that I wish that she was able to see the good stuff and things that I have accomplished. But you’re absolutely right I should get over it it is what it

[Juxtapose]

Do you have any friends that you can lean on for support?

[Justneedtokno]

Yes, but it’s my problem like you said

[Justneedtokno]

I’m not trying to push people away by displaying my emotions and crap

[Juxtapose]

Well last time I had a pet die I went to my room to cry alone and my roommate followed me in there and comforted me. Isn't that what friends are for?

[Sunssong]

Ignorant comment. You just suggested people who don't suppress their emotions are morons. In fact, that doesn't even work well and is considered dangerous. If you understand the subconscious mind you would see how ignorant your statement is. The conscious mind (will power) is going to lose roughly 96% of the time. You control yourself by getting coherence, not going to battle with your own mind. And I know you don't know that because it's not taught anywhere in schools; nor does your comment suggest you understand that. It doesn't make someone a moron to not know that. Will power plays a part but it has nothing directly to do with consistent behavior. The subconscious is directly responsible for consistent behavior.

[Juxtapose]

Control your emotions or they will control you.

It really is that simple.

[Justneedtokno]

That may be, but they live in different states and why didn’t you push a person away if you’re emotional or have feelings towards your pet at that time. I think when my mother died, I just wanted to go back to my childhood home and be by myself.

[Juxtapose]

When I feel sad I l want comfort and understanding from people I mutually care about. I hope you can get more of that yourself.

[Summeroflove]

The wrong people yes and it hurts. But it’s not a bad thing. The right people though it only brings closer

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. Feelings rise and fall, which is why relationships built solely upon such things tend to fall apart.

[Gent207-2]

Yes if those emotions are inappropriate for the context or are unpredictable.

[Fuentes]

I find not having any pushes people away n I enjoy that.

[Spade_01]

Emotions can make people do many things. Pushing people away is one of them.

[brandon1122]

Yeah, it can remove people out of your life completely

[gag37627]

Yes. No one would want to share pain. Only our parents are willing to do that

[Anonymous]

women love for you to open up so they know your insecuries and will use them against you

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you express them in a bad way yeah.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, but only if they are scared of them.

[Wise4myage]

Yes of course they can. We are not robots.

[LuukeStarkilller91]

Certainly! There is no doubt that can happen!

[AliSulayman]

It pushes women away.

[msc545]

Also time to stop posting memes.

[DizzyDesii]

if theyre not mutual

[Anonymous]

only if the person is a scumbag like demi

[eagle1951]

yes they can