Do you think its alright to sit on a guy friend lap who you consider to be just a friend and dont want anything more?

[quasiarobertson]

[dynamicyandere]

If you’re single, sure. A bit flirtatious, but you do you.


If you’re taken, no. As said before, it’s a flirtatious gesture, like running your hand through a guy’s hair. Even if you don’t mean it that way, it can be easily taken that way.


Also, funny story. I was with a group of friends, I was sitting on a couch, and a female friend of mine sat on my lap. I didn’t do anything and just let her sit there.


Then, someone in the group said, “You know he has a girlfriend.”


And then she immediately sat up and turned to me and was like, “You’re baaad.” 🤣


(I was actually single at the time and it had already been a couple months since I broke up with my ex. But, not everyone in the group knew yet.)


So yeah…


Single: 🟢
Taken: 🔴

[dynamicyandere]

If you don’t want to come off as flirting though, lay off the laps.

[MrOracle]

That's like climbing into a tiger cage and poking the tiger. You might get away with it once, or even a dozen times, but sooner or later, something is going to happen that you might not like.

[Anonymous]

That’s basically sitting on his d**k friends don’t do that lol.

[quasiarobertson]

Not true you can sit on his upper thighs and knees, or sit across

[Opinion Owner]

Girl that is close enough lol anywhere in the thigh region. I once dated a guy who could only get hard from touching his upper though😂

[Opinion Owner]

*thigh*

[quasiarobertson]

well you can sit above his thigh by his knees, lower part of the thigh

[Opinion Owner]

That’s basically on his crotch, and I wouldn’t do that with a friend. If you don’t agree then why ask this question? Sit in bros lap then.

[quasiarobertson]

my bro is overprotective nad Growls at guy friends who i sit on but yet he want me to sit on his lap..

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s kinda gross lol no offense but at 24 he shouldn’t want you in his lap.

[MementoMori777]

Personally I don't agree with it but I mean, it's your life bro, who am I to tell you what you should do with it

[LiamJHayden]

It completely depends upon the friendship dynamic.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s totally ok! Lucky bastard he is.

[Anonymous]

Why would you sit on his lap?

[quasiarobertson]

nowhere to sit, I felt like it, or I wanted to to mess with him

[Opinion Owner]

Then no I don't think it's alright.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, but not for long periods of time.

[riverrat3]

Good way to find out if that is all he wants

[Anonymous]

no..