What to fo with this person?

[sheenagwapa]

there's this person who is harassing me irl because he wanted me to act a certain what and if i don't he will control and manipulate everyone so that i will yield. he is not just doing this to me but to my sister as well.

[Anonymous]

If someone is harassing and manipulating you and your sister, it's important to take action to protect yourselves and put a stop to the behavior. Here are some steps you could take:

1. Set clear boundaries: Let the person know that their behavior is not acceptable and that you will not tolerate harassment or manipulation. Be firm and assertive in your communication, and avoid engaging in arguments or discussions that could escalate the situation.

2. Document the harassment: Keep a record of any incidents of harassment or manipulation, including dates, times, and details of what happened. This can be helpful if you need to report the behavior to authorities or seek legal action.

3. Seek support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or professionals for emotional support and guidance. You could also consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor to help you cope with the situation.

4. Report the harassment: If the harassment continues or escalates, you may need to report it to authorities, such as the police or school officials. Provide them with any evidence you have collected and be clear about the impact the harassment is having on you and your sister.

5. Consider a restraining order: If the harassment is particularly severe, you may need to consider seeking a restraining order to legally prohibit the person from contacting or coming near you.

Remember, no one has the right to harass or manipulate you, and you have the right to protect yourself and seek help if necessary. Don't hesitate to take action to keep yourself and your sister safe.

[bowenw]

I suggest you refuse to do what he wants and warn everyone you know what is happening so he cannot control them.

[Jennz6]

Don’t let him hurt you, call someone in your family