My stepdad called me ugly, stupid, fat?

[Anonymous]

We get along great. We laugh, we joke. Today he was drunk and called me ugly and stupid for forgetting the key outside the door.

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Why is he like this?

[GreekLorrd]

I'm sorry to hear that your stepdad called you hurtful names. No matter what the circumstances or his state of mind, there is no excuse for treating someone that way. It's important to remember that his words do not define you or your worth as a person. You are valuable and deserving of love and respect, and no one has the right to make you feel otherwise.

It's important to address this behavior with your stepdad when he is sober and calm. Let him know how his words hurt you, and ask him to apologize. If he is unwilling to apologize or continues to engage in abusive behavior, it may be necessary to seek help from a trusted adult or professional, such as a counselor or therapist. They can provide you with support and guidance on how to handle the situation and protect yourself from further harm.

Remember that you are not alone and there are resources available to help you. It's important to prioritize your mental and emotional health, and to surround yourself with people who treat you with kindness and respect.

[Asker]

Thank you for such comforting words. It made me cry haha. 😀

[GreekLorrd]

Don't cry.. I'm here for you. Tell me what you want. If it will comfort you, sure.

[OfMiceandMen]

Nice... I would be none to impressed with him, if I were you. I am sure he has done forgetful things in the past?

[Asker]

What do you mean forgetful things in the past?

[OfMiceandMen]

Like lose his car keys, misplaced things. If he is going to be hard on you then he should be hard on himself when he makes the same mistakes.

[OfMiceandMen]

Re Update: Some guys get off on degrading women to make themselves feel more powerful, but really its a small minded thing.

[MementoMori777]

Cause he's intoxicated, sometimes being intoxicated makes people say and do stupid things, on the bright side tho he was intoxicated so what he says is most likely bullshit

[In_Trance]

so what are you asking?

[Asker]

Why is he like that to me

[In_Trance]

That's a question and conversation you'd have to have with him

[Asker]

He’s too immature for conversation like that.

[In_Trance]

He's not to immature to make the statements. I wouldn't decide that for him. It's not helping your cause

[riverrat3]

He is ugly and stupid

[Anonymous]

Tell him he is a little bitch