I’m fourteen, and my boyfriend is sixteen. He does this thing that whenever he gets mad, he lashes out at the closest person to him, and it often happens to be me. He calls me ugly, a whore, etc. He then tries to make up with me by buying me expensive stuff afterwards. I want to break up with him, but he insists that he’s going to kill himself if he does (That’s another story). I guess what I’m asking is, is he being honest, or is he just being an ass? Should I break up with him?
(Also, ignore that little piece of hair that’s sticking up, it always does that for some reason :p)
You need to get out! Now! And away from him! When my ex boyfriend would get mad, He would punch things, throw things and yes, called me those same names!! He also threatened to beat me! And he would also force himself on me and force me to have sex with him! And about him threatening suicide if you break up with him, He is controlling and manipulating you! My ex threatened the same thing, He's still alive! He harassed me for awhile after we broke up but I shut that down quickly! Honey, it's not love, It's abuse! RUN! You are 14 years old!! You are way way way too young to be experiencing this type of abuse! But let this be a lesson! Get out! I promise you won't regret it!
You are truly pretty, but yes I think you should break up, it's like a toxic relationship for you... did his parents know about how he is? He probably needs some help...
He is a ASS. You are Beautiful. A 9 out of 10 at least. Your eyes are well I am trying to find a word so we will come back to that. You lips are screaming to beautiful and just makes a person want to kiss them. Your hair looks to be soft and beautiful. Just makes some want to be your boyfriend or hair stylist so they could run their fingers through it. Just dump him boys like that are not worth it. You can do way better. And if he calls you threatening to commit suicide call the police so they can get him some mental help.
1. You should break up with him. He cannot put you on that ultimatum, it's not fair for you, it's not fair for him, nothing good will come out of it. If he's having suicidal thoughts he needs professional help and the removal of toxic relationships. 2. This IS a toxic relationship, he's being an ass for some reason. Maybe he doesn't know how else to deal with it, maybe he's trying to feel powerful, whatever it is, it's not your responsibility to put up with it 3. Stfu you look beautiful
You're not ugly, your face is quite beautiful, in regards to his behavior, he obviously has some kind of issues, it's not normal behaviour. It also doesn't help he is young, unless it's particularly serious (issues, mental health) he'd get better as he got older.
When you say “boyfriend” do you actually mean “asshole you used to date for some weird reason?” if he kills himself that is his own choice, not yours. If the guy is already verbally abusive to you, you need to get out now before it escalates.
Just break up with him, he has mental and social issues from what you are saying, and if he ends up attempting suicide its not your fault, don't worry about being arrested for someone else commiting suicide because you won't be arrested you didn't influence his suicide or tell him to go ahead and commit it. + if he says that again just call 911 or your parents or even his parents, because he would need to be in a psychiatric hospital if he tries to commit suicide.
he is manipulating you. you need to get out of that relationship now. suicide should always be taken seriously even if its from a manipulator like him. i would tell a school counselor and also his parents about what he is doing and saying to you and about his threats of suicide so that they can take care of it. also you are not ugly
Well, as I have mentioned numerous times... Not only are you NOT ugly, but you are really beautiful! My God, your boyfriend does not realize how good he has it!
You are beautiful. Can you live with a person like him, buying expensive things is not a true love, and you cannot be the person who can easily tricked by things. Just think about your future life how he would hurt you at such times as you mentioned. Just think twice also you are too young so be careful with relationships
He's abusive and manipulative. It's 99.9% likely he's lying about killing himself since that's a line abusive people use to force you to stay, so you need to get the hell outta there.
Oh the classic guilt trip. Break up with the dude. You are not responsible for the decisions he makes. He has parents for that. Don't make his problems yours, especially not at your age.
If he, for whatever reason, gets mad and takes it out on someone he "loves", that's probably the first sign that he's going to be an abuser later in life
Honestly I think you need to think about yourself cause that's not how you treat someone dear to you especially in a relationship cause sometimes not everything can be bought. Cause either he get serious about what he wants in life or you walk cause just as he can say those things he can to others.
One you’re beautiful never listen to anyone that says anything other than that two he will live you need positive vibes around you not negative so dump him he probably will be to much of a pussy to actually kill himself
Just drop him. With how young you are it's unlikely your relationship will last anyway.
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That’s not how a girl should be treated you’re only 14! Wait until your older and focus on yourself and school these young boys will do whatever they want
Are you stoned? She is above average and, when you add the fact that she is 14 when girls are often in their awkward phase, she is well-above average for girls her age.
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