If both of hubby and wife prefer breadwinner which u prefer to babysit kids?

[Tiger288]

For me, I prefer grandparents to babysit rather than strangers babysit. I feel comfortable and safe with grandparents I know they have lot of experience with kids. I don't trust strangers they can hurt and molest kids.

[kylee2437]

I hope you know , statically most molestations happen within a family or a close family friend doing it. It’s usually a person the parents know a personal level and trust. I know this doesn’t answer the question, I think so many people have molestation information mixed up

[Tiger288]

My family is not like that they are very protective of kids.

[kylee2437]

@Tiger288 you never know. Many people with family members that have molested their loved ones once said what you said. You just never know.

[Tiger288]

True but strangers babysit kids more than grandparents

[kylee2437]

@Tiger288 stats still say family members and close friends are usually the ones to molest. Molesters like to gain huge amounts of trust with others so they can deceive people

[WhitneySnow]

You’re not wrong but what if your grandparents are dead or don’t live close?

[Tiger288]

Then we have to pay day-care a lot until kids start go to school

[WhitneySnow]

Or just hire a girl my age or a little younger to babysit

[Tiger288]

I need somebody babysit can take kids to doctor or etc whatever

[WhitneySnow]

Then you need a girl who’s at least 16 who has a driver’s license and a car

Gtg. Sorry. Good luck. Night.

[rosemilk]

... babysitters don't take your kids to the doctor. the most they do is watch them, get them fed, stuff like that. what you're probably looking for is a nanny if you need them to take the kids to something more serious such as a doctor...

[Meropatrick]

Totally true Unfortunately nowadays grandpas are put in nursery homes