Wast dad right for getting upset with me for being up my absence mother when I need her?

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I remember crying about my mother when I was a teenager and wanting to live with her and for her to come back but everyone got tired of me talking about her and bluntly told me she wants nothing to do with me and move on. My dad insulted my mother right in front of my face by calling her a “bitch” for abandoning me and him. He gets angry when I bring it up and got in my face and told me to quit talking about that flaky woman. He bluntly said he doesn’t give a rats ass about my mother and he wanted me to quit talking about it and refused to let me sulk. He never lets me sulk when he calls me out. He got in my face and told me mom isn’t a strong woman. She is a weak, cowardly woman that refuses to be a mother and told me to stay the hell away from him with all that crying about her and he’s the one that should be upset because she was the one that broke his heart after the love and devotion he gave her and he had to file for divorce but I don’t hear him moping and crying about it all the time so back off and lay off the subject. He holds NOTHING back. He says the ugly truth in your face, even if it’s painful, he will tell you the truth and refuse to tell you what you wanna hear. He isn’t nice. That’s why I can’t express my feelings to him but I do to the other relatives.
I haven’t seen my mom since I was very little. My dad never apologized for getting in my face and yelling at me to quit talking about my mother. Even my older brothers are tired of hearing it and told me she’s a lousy mother and stop telling people she is a great mother when she isn’t. Enough. Men are so rude to emotional women and girls.

Wast dad right for getting upset with me for being up my absence mother when I need her?
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