Your son has just brought his new girlfriend into your house and went inside his room and closed the door. Is that okay with you?

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They said they need peace and quiet and will be studying.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. I’m not about to listen to my son or daughter go balls deep in their room. Under the roof that I pay for. If they want to go deep inside they’re gonna have to find a different roof to do that under. A car, a hotel, at work. Under a bridge like the homeless.

You're not about to do the nasty in my house. Better figure that SHT out. It’s why parents kick their kids out at 18. And they get them their own vehicle at 16.

I’m not INSANE enough to get home one day, and I hear clapping and moaning coming from someone’s room. I’m not about to listen to kissing sounds or smacking sounds or squeezing water sounds. NONE OF THAT. A home is supposed to be family friendly. One thing is watching porn in your locked room. Another thing is going BALLS DEEP with the whole family under the same roof.
ABSOLUTELY NOT.

I didn’t grow up in that family dynamic. And I’m not about to allow such degeneracy in my family orientated home as a mother.

Family members eat in the house. They watch movies. Listen to music. Make barbecues. They play video games. Better get your ShT together and figure that out. Cause I’m not having it.

Growing up I never saw older cousins or siblings go into locked rooms with their partner when everyone lives in the same house. NEVER.

And I find it absolutely sick, insane, reprobate, degenerate. Disturbing, Distressing, Traumatic, Wild, Mental.

That some of these responders are saying that it’s completely fine with them in their home!! Under their fucking roof!! Where everyone sleeps and eats!! 🤡🤡🤡

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I don't see a problem with it. They can have their privacy

Glyn54 · Answer

Depends on lots of things.
I was 28yo and had moved back into my parents house after getting divorced (for 6 months until I got my property settlement)
I had a girlfriend (met her after the divorce) an d one day I invited her over to my place and we went into the spare room where I had my stero turned up. We went in there to listen to msic. I shut the door to not disturb my parents. This was NOT bedroom although there was a bed in there.
We were NOT engaging in ANY form of sexual activity - we were listning to music together.
My mother got mad at me because I brought her into my mothers home to have sex with her.
I got REALLY mad with my mother because
(a) If I wanted to have sex with her that is my business and not my mothers as I am an adult
(b) I wouldn't have sex with her in my parent home because I already knew my mothers attitude to it andd this meant that my mother didn;t trust me to live by her rules in her house.
(c) i was going to spend the night with my girlfriend at HER house and have sex with her in HER bed so why would I bother at my parents house.

if the "child" concered is over 18 then it's none of the parents business. They may genuilely be studying and have closed the door to help with doing with that. They might kiss in there but, so what, if they kiss in there then they are going to kiss outside of the home as well. They MIGHT have some sexual adventures in there and if so then isn't it better that they do it in a safe environment?

Alli39 · Answer

Depends. How old is he? Is he a trustworthy kid/have any behavioral issues I'm concerned about? Do I know the girl? Because I'd assume I'd want to at least meet the people who are in my house, even if they spend time alone after. (And lowkey, has he gotten "the talk" yet/is he aware of safe sex and all that?) I obviously don't have teenage kids, or any kids for that matter and haven't really established much of a stance on "how far" my hypothetical children would be allowed to go in my house, but I know my bare minimum would be that he's not like 14 and unaware of how to use a condom.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Captain Obvious, don’t you think your answer should be OBVIOUS? You better have THAT talk with him if you hadn’t already.

Better yet, you need to meet HER parents. Find out what you can about her and then determine if she is a “good girl” or a “naughty girl” because she could be a girl desperate to get out from under the same roof as mommy and daddy. Are you ready to be a grand daddy?

They won’t do the “deed” while you’re at home, but there are other ways for her to get a “rise” out of your son that doesn’t require their clothes coming off.

Anemone978 · Answer

Nope.. if they are like 20 something okay.. but defo not a teenager lol I would be busting in that room every 3 minutes.. you need a drink... you need snacks.. lol

Anonymous · Answer

My son yes

My daughter no.

I know its hypocrite but here's the thing. My sons value won't go down if he has sex with a woman. My daughter should save herself. But I would have a serious talk with both of them on all the consequences that can happen etc. So I would already think they are gonna have sex (if my son is 15+). But my daughter the door will be open..

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I used to do this when I was a kid. I had to close the door because I'm a 17-year-old and I'm about to bang my 13-year-old Mexican girlfriend raw dog and bare. The last thing I need is for someone to walk in!

Good times. That pooneety was top tier pooneety.

provokeesmokee · Answer

They'll be studying sex ed, but depending on age (16 is ok) I'd be ok with it.

I'll just be tossing my son a condom before he closes the door and I'll knock and wait to be let in before bringing snacks and drinks.

I'd rather they make out NOT within my line of sight, please.

panda2712 · Answer

It depends how well you trust your son and what your relationship is with him and if his open and honest with you and if you can tell by the look on his face if anything you can ask them to leave the door even slightly open (I voted no tho)

Vegasrunner · Answer

I would only remind him to make sure he gets written or verbal consent. Young men must be careful when dealing w/ modetn woman and since this is my hypothetical son and house our family could stand to loose millions in cash and or assets by a false allegation.

Reem12345reem · Answer

most teenagers these days are losing their virginities bc of Tiktok and overhyping sex , I saw a 9 year old watching something that is definitely not age appropriate 💀and this thing for the aesthetics and the trend is also stupid , like wtf is "Im iN mY hOe ErA 💅"

musicbrain5 · Answer

I would totally know what they’re up to in there! But you know what? I would be glad they’re in a safe place and not some seedy dive motel or something.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Answer

Lmao I wouldn't have a problem with it but my wife would be a hard no and force him to keep the door open.

madhatters4 · Answer

kind of depends on their age. if it's my adultish son coming home from school or something then maybe i'm a little more ok with it. certainly if they are high school age or younger then the door is definitely staying open

EricSummer · Answer

My son and his girlfriend are both 14. I would give them their privacy. Maybe they want to kiss. Who knows?

Sex is legal in my country as they are the same age (below 3 years difference). I think they do not feel ready, yet, though.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If the kid lives with me, their bedroom door will be open when company is over. They can close it at night if they are like 16+ but if i ever caught them sneaking out their window, their door couldnt be closed anymore

CubsterShura · Answer

Highly depends on the situation and context tbh. If they can have a good time and it won't bother anyone else then what's the big deal?

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Im fine with that. Even if they're having sex, I don't care as long as they're being safe and a part of safe sex is having it in a safe environment.

Miristheiss · Answer

No. I would open it and tell them to leave the door open.

Anonymous · Answer

Think about it this way (yes, I’ve looked at some other replies and know some won’t agree with me.)

If your son and his girlfriend are going to be sexually active, they are going to find a way. Would you rather it be somewhere you know that they can be safe or under some bridge or in the woods where someone or something could hurt them?

Yannishka · Answer

I go to my husband and say 'Honey, could you remove all the doors?'

Anonymous · Answer

No that is not okay behavior.

@emyywolf hey I read you post. It doesn't let me reply to your comment. You said you're so traditional and come from a religious house hold. So you hold high morals and values? Then why do you follow @danny_dan92 on here if he's a complete degenerate. You do realize he sends dick pics to girls on here, right?

AviatorTom · Answer

Depends how old he is. If under 18, the door stays open

JesseP1nk · Answer

Yeah i would be ok with that. I know nothing gonna happen. How do i know that? Because i know girlfriend would not feel comfortable enough to have sex because there are people in the house who might walk in.

Anonymous · Answer

They're be studying alright. Just not in their room with the door closed.

libsaretards · Answer

No. Absolutely not! Teenagers are both impulsive and infamous for making decisions they regret later in life.

lightbulb27 · Answer

no way, not one that can be trusted, not at that age. get em through college at least.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Trying to get some peace and quiet? He’s looking to get quite a piece? Not on my watch, kiddo!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Nope, the door can stay open. No need to shut it.

strateguy632 · Answer

i rush to the "nanny cam" just to make sure they are actually studying books.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Hell no, u can close doors when you get your own house , Mister 😆

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

I am surprised how many people don't respect their kids privacy.

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

I guess it only matters if you care that he will be impregenating her...

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. Why? Because I know what I was like as a teen.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

How old would he be? If under 16 I would be opening his door

Billlewis · Answer

How old is he?

imawfulatusernames · Answer

If they’re too young to be having sex I wouldn’t be concerned they would be if they are I’d rather the door was shut😅

lorenzomichael · Answer

Yeah I'll have no problem with that. And it depends on how old he is, because most kids live with there parents untill their early 20s.

clampfan101 · Answer

Depends on how well I felt I’ve raised him. If I did as well as my parents did with me, I would trust him.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Yes, because they are not alone. They are with Jesus, and Allah and Captain Crunch.

Agape93 · Answer

Better at home than somewhere else and be at risk.

nawtee_me · Answer

No closed doors, if they want to have sex they can do it with the door open or go get a hotel room.

Fuentes · Answer

Door must be open, I ain't becoming a grandpa early.

Lokiion · Answer

Even if they not studying might aswell let them get to business aslong as they got protection

Kacka · Answer

yes, imagine please for me right now, whats would be better place then he's own room?

Raaj4you · Answer

I don't mind if he is focusing on his studies and enjoying his sex life.

robocop666 · Answer

Your allowed to hang out with friends but dirty stuff with people on the house is unacceptable.

Anonymous · Answer

Let them fuck, God created Sex. How would you feel if you were cockblocked. Hormones rage when your younger

Sabretooth · Answer

It depends. For me? Probably just watching movies or playing games.

Starlove4 · Answer

If they are 18 then yes but under 18 hell no

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, he has a life too.

sheenagwapa · Answer

my house is not a hotel no

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes it’s totally ok

Alexz0 · Answer

Yes, he can do what and who her chooses.

SnowedIn · Answer

Yes I would.

msc545 · Answer

Sure, why not?

DaBiggestBird · Answer

That’s funny..

DreamLife7 · Answer

Nope lol

EaterPeter · Answer

Depends, or puck no

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