Absolutely not. I’m not about to listen to my son or daughter go balls deep in their room. Under the roof that I pay for. If they want to go deep inside they’re gonna have to find a different roof to do that under. A car, a hotel, at work. Under a bridge like the homeless.
You're not about to do the nasty in my house. Better figure that SHT out. It’s why parents kick their kids out at 18. And they get them their own vehicle at 16.
I’m not INSANE enough to get home one day, and I hear clapping and moaning coming from someone’s room. I’m not about to listen to kissing sounds or smacking sounds or squeezing water sounds. NONE OF THAT. A home is supposed to be family friendly. One thing is watching porn in your locked room. Another thing is going BALLS DEEP with the whole family under the same roof.
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
I didn’t grow up in that family dynamic. And I’m not about to allow such degeneracy in my family orientated home as a mother.
Family members eat in the house. They watch movies. Listen to music. Make barbecues. They play video games. Better get your ShT together and figure that out. Cause I’m not having it.
Growing up I never saw older cousins or siblings go into locked rooms with their partner when everyone lives in the same house. NEVER.
And I find it absolutely sick, insane, reprobate, degenerate. Disturbing, Distressing, Traumatic, Wild, Mental.
That some of these responders are saying that it’s completely fine with them in their home!! Under their fucking roof!! Where everyone sleeps and eats!! 🤡🤡🤡
@captain-obvious
🤷🏻♀️ But then again, some of these responders came from Crackhead Homes. Broken Homes.. so it makes complete sense as to why they’d allow such DEPLORABLE BEHAVIOR to take place 🤷🏻♀️
@captain-obvious
And also. I come from a very traditional, strict, religious household. I’m not from this nation. My cousins and Uncles, and so on. We all have morals and values put in place. We have honor and decency. We do what’s appropriate in a home/ family environment. We have rules.
I dare, my child to try to lock their door with some stranger in my home. Wether it be their lover or not. Of the opposite sex.
Not only will the Son receive severe physical punishment. But that door will be removed. He will be put into therapy. He will be put into a sport. Videogames and Electronics removed indefinitely. And if the behavior worsens, they will be sent to a Boarding school, Military School. Because the DEPLORABLE BEHAVIOR has gotten out of hand.
In my culture if a girl loses her virginity underage, the same type of punishment takes place. She will also have her makeup removed indefinitely, and her head will be completely shaved. 🤷🏻♀️
It is what it is. You either are a productive member of society who owns a moral compass 🧭. Or you’re another degenerate nobody.
I don't see a problem with it. They can have their privacy
You’re like the most hands-off parent I’ve ever heard. Its like you’re the type who believes disciplining a kid is child abuse
@WhiteBoyChill definitely not hands off. I discipline my kids lol
I don’t believe for one second you discipline them. You’re the one that thinks its fine for a married woman to start up conversations with random men in public and flirt with them. It happened to me once and you insisted “so are they supposed to just stop talking to men, its no big deal”
@WhiteBoyChill nah I keep my kids in line lol
And there is nothing wrong with flirting
@KrakenAttackin Bro are you seeing this? She literally doubled down on her comments earlier. She thinks its ok for a married woman to flirt with other men.
WTF?
@WhiteBoyChill She also said months ago that anal sex isn't cheating.
@KrakenAttackin don't think that was me... I'm not into anal
@WhiteBoyChill my husband likes being married lol. No I've never cheated. I have depression, barely leave my house and don't talk to anyone so would be kind of hard to do that
Gee well if you don’t actually talk to anyone, than why the hell are you justifying married women flirting with strangers?
That seems kind of I don't know, like you’re being intentionally dishonest now that I’ve called you out.
Just the mere fact you said you have depression and subsequently justified measures that are cheating makes me believe you are cheating.
Maybe your husband’s a cuck and is ok with it, but do you think any other guy wants their wife flirting with other men?
@WhiteBoyChill already did it lol and I haven't had anymore because clearly I don't want any kids not u less I have a solid relationship I am very financially secure but I want my kids, although I have one to see they were made out if love and in a loving family then just being there in separate homes.
@WhiteBoyChill I don't see anything wrong with flirting. Lots of other couples are fine with innocent flirting. Doesn't mean it leads to sex/cheating. And I'm not even into men so not really a issue to flirt with them since it's not gonna lead to sex even if I was single. The depression does really hold me back from even talking to other people so that's a thing too
Also it's super stereotypical to assume a army wife is cheating. We aren't all cheaters by default just because of our husband's job. It's gross to assume that.
Gee well you’re saying all the same things a cheater would say
@WhiteBoyChill tbh could care less if you think I'm cheater or not. I just think it's super odd to assume so much when you don't even know me
@Apple1996 I think @WhiteBoyChill wants to be Mister Rough Tough Jodie boy, is what I am reading now.
@WhiteBoyChill do u want her to cheat with you?
@Apple1996. Why depression?
@Apple1996. OMG, you are an Army wife? Military wives... fuck.
@KrakenAttackin from having all these babies.
And yeah everyone here knows I'm a army wife. Did you not know?
@KrakenAttackin Ikr. The poor clueless guy that’s with her. I wish I knew him so I could send him screenshots of all this talk about it being totally ok for married women to flirt with strangers
And yeah, I don’t think its natural either for women to get depressed as parents. That sounds more just like someone who’s emotionally not ready to be a parent
@WhiteBoyChill my husband has seen the things I've posted here.
And it's super common to have postpartum depression. It's from the drop in hormones after giving birth. Nature did that to help keep babies alive in the wild. Still goes for today since it's not good to be dragging a newborn out into bad situations
@WhiteBoyChill did u really just say post partum isn't a thing bro? Hahahahahaha man u are clueless I hope u don't get married. You have a mom right? Just ask her if it's a thing I'm sure she had it when she had you bro. Uhhhhh I don't know how your this ignorant about women and babies bro but I hope you get educated soon hahahahahaha
@Apple1996 he in his 20's he should know if not it's gonna be a long a hard road hahahha
You said yourself your kids are like 4 and 5 years old. By now you should’ve gotten your shit together and figured it out
@WhiteBoyChill I don't even have kids those ages 😂 My kids are 8, 6, 20 months and 4 months. Someone doesn't just get over postpartum depression. It can last up to 7 years or a lifetime depending on birth trauma/ptsd
@WhiteBoyChill with my 3rd I was basically on my death bed so not something that I'll ever get over. I have extreme ptsd from it
Well in that case maybe just take group therapy classes or have the Doctor give you some kind of medication to treat it
Depression is not an excuse to be cheating on a man though. That is despicable
@WhiteBoyChill do u consider your self a armchair therapist & etc?
@WhiteBoyChill therapy doesn't help like I said it's hormonal. Meds are too risky for breastfeeding. It passes to the babies. And I also feel no need to treat it since it's completely normal
Then just give your babies milk bottles. Problem solved
@WhiteBoyChill you are dumb lol. We are in a formula shortage and I'm doing the best thing for my kids. It takes being selfless and sacrifices to be a good parent. And not breastfeeding can cause even worse depression from not being able to bond with the baby
@WhiteBoyChill I'm also a milk seller so it's how I make money. Literally bought myself a new car that way
Christ. My Mom literally just gave me the milk from the store that people put in their cereal. I could care less about the “formula shortage”. You’ve had several years to pull your shit together. Figure it out
@WhiteBoyChill if your mom fed u regular store bought milk and not the baby formulated milk, well that makes sense why your so ignorant and not smart at all. Your mother abused and neglected you as an infant & that's super SAD man.
@WhiteBoyChill babies under 12 months will literally die if they have cows milk. Their bodies can't process it. Only formula or breastmilk in the 1st year. 2 years is ideal tho.
And wow I really hope you never have childern cause you are ridiculous telling me to pull it together like I have a new baby. That's not something you say to mothers of newborns
This isn’t something you’ve never done before though. This is your fourth time having one. Surely you could’ve figured out something that worked by now?
@WhiteBoyChill every baby and birth is different so not something that I can just know how to handle cuz I've done it before. They aren't all the same experiences
@WhiteBoyChill lol you're in your early 20's and don't know anything about the women productive system or babies bro I would hate to be as ignorant as you and even be you at that point lol 😂 🤣
@Apple1996 this guy is delusional lol
@WhiteBoyChill don't push your self projection and ignorance, it's not "trolling" when you openly just said post Partum isn't a thing & you said women can just get over it. Did you or did you not say that? Lol but because you're wrong, it's trolling? Is that hiw u live life? That whenever you're wrong its trolling?
Opinion
35Opinion
Depends on lots of things.
I was 28yo and had moved back into my parents house after getting divorced (for 6 months until I got my property settlement)
I had a girlfriend (met her after the divorce) an d one day I invited her over to my place and we went into the spare room where I had my stero turned up. We went in there to listen to msic. I shut the door to not disturb my parents. This was NOT bedroom although there was a bed in there.
We were NOT engaging in ANY form of sexual activity - we were listning to music together.
My mother got mad at me because I brought her into my mothers home to have sex with her.
I got REALLY mad with my mother because
(a) If I wanted to have sex with her that is my business and not my mothers as I am an adult
(b) I wouldn't have sex with her in my parent home because I already knew my mothers attitude to it andd this meant that my mother didn;t trust me to live by her rules in her house.
(c) i was going to spend the night with my girlfriend at HER house and have sex with her in HER bed so why would I bother at my parents house.
if the "child" concered is over 18 then it's none of the parents business. They may genuilely be studying and have closed the door to help with doing with that. They might kiss in there but, so what, if they kiss in there then they are going to kiss outside of the home as well. They MIGHT have some sexual adventures in there and if so then isn't it better that they do it in a safe environment?
Depends. How old is he? Is he a trustworthy kid/have any behavioral issues I'm concerned about? Do I know the girl? Because I'd assume I'd want to at least meet the people who are in my house, even if they spend time alone after. (And lowkey, has he gotten "the talk" yet/is he aware of safe sex and all that?) I obviously don't have teenage kids, or any kids for that matter and haven't really established much of a stance on "how far" my hypothetical children would be allowed to go in my house, but I know my bare minimum would be that he's not like 14 and unaware of how to use a condom.
Captain Obvious, don’t you think your answer should be OBVIOUS? You better have THAT talk with him if you hadn’t already.
Better yet, you need to meet HER parents. Find out what you can about her and then determine if she is a “good girl” or a “naughty girl” because she could be a girl desperate to get out from under the same roof as mommy and daddy. Are you ready to be a grand daddy?
They won’t do the “deed” while you’re at home, but there are other ways for her to get a “rise” out of your son that doesn’t require their clothes coming off.
Nope.. if they are like 20 something okay.. but defo not a teenager lol
I would be busting in that room every 3 minutes.. you need a drink... you need snacks.. lol
@bros26 Goof :P
My son yes
My daughter no.
I know its hypocrite but here's the thing. My sons value won't go down if he has sex with a woman. My daughter should save herself. But I would have a serious talk with both of them on all the consequences that can happen etc. So I would already think they are gonna have sex (if my son is 15+). But my daughter the door will be open..
@Sitaraxx saving myself for someone special yes I am:)
I'd prefer my daughter to wait for marrige and the same with my son but its nothing im gonna push on them.
@Sitaraxx then I get remarried.:)
The thing is I want my daughter to know her value and how she keeps that value. I want her to find a husband that can protect her and provide for her. Not sleep around like most people do today
@anonymous you sound like a guy on a pink account.
@RoosterBreast im not Im a conservative woman:) but you believe whatever you want
I’m a conservative man but I can’t really understand the double standard tho. I wouldn’t want my son to have premarital sex either
@WhiteBoyChill yes I dont either but its worse for a girl than a boy. I would still have a serious talk with both of them but my son can still have a happy marrige and find a good wife even if he has experiences my daughter much less likely
Why do you think that is? I don’t understand how a fckboy could be more marriage worthy than a female hoe
@WhiteBoyChill no not a fuckboy. Like I would raise my kids so that would make them feel disgusted. I mean if my son has like 1 bodycount before marrige or less than 5 it is fine. (From long term relationships). Men value virginity more than women. Even traditional women are usually okay with a man having a very tiny bodycount while many conservative men would only marry a virgin
Yeah that’s true. You wouldn’t want her to totally ruin her chances later
@WhiteBoyChill yup
Op, well said! A huge part of your daughters value is her purity! Being pure is a huge advantage to getting and keeping a GOOD man.
@KrakenAttackin yup! I want her to know that. But I will still love her if she lost her virginity to a long term relationship that didn't work out but lying to her like we are lying to women today won't do her any favors
I used to do this when I was a kid. I had to close the door because I'm a 17-year-old and I'm about to bang my 13-year-old Mexican girlfriend raw dog and bare. The last thing I need is for someone to walk in!
Good times. That pooneety was top tier pooneety.
@d_bone_steak. Living large bro!
They'll be studying sex ed, but depending on age (16 is ok) I'd be ok with it.
I'll just be tossing my son a condom before he closes the door and I'll knock and wait to be let in before bringing snacks and drinks.
I'd rather they make out NOT within my line of sight, please.
It depends how well you trust your son and what your relationship is with him and if his open and honest with you and if you can tell by the look on his face if anything you can ask them to leave the door even slightly open (I voted no tho)
I would only remind him to make sure he gets written or verbal consent. Young men must be careful when dealing w/ modetn woman and since this is my hypothetical son and house our family could stand to loose millions in cash and or assets by a false allegation.
most teenagers these days are losing their virginities bc of Tiktok and overhyping sex , I saw a 9 year old watching something that is definitely not age appropriate 💀and this thing for the aesthetics and the trend is also stupid , like wtf is "Im iN mY hOe ErA 💅"
I would totally know what they’re up to in there! But you know what? I would be glad they’re in a safe place and not some seedy dive motel or something.
u Lmao I wouldn't have a problem with it but my wife would be a hard no and force him to keep the door open.
kind of depends on their age. if it's my adultish son coming home from school or something then maybe i'm a little more ok with it. certainly if they are high school age or younger then the door is definitely staying open
My son and his girlfriend are both 14. I would give them their privacy. Maybe they want to kiss. Who knows?
Sex is legal in my country as they are the same age (below 3 years difference). I think they do not feel ready, yet, though.
If the kid lives with me, their bedroom door will be open when company is over. They can close it at night if they are like 16+ but if i ever caught them sneaking out their window, their door couldnt be closed anymore
My siblings and I couldnt shut our door in high school at all
Highly depends on the situation and context tbh. If they can have a good time and it won't bother anyone else then what's the big deal?
Im fine with that. Even if they're having sex, I don't care as long as they're being safe and a part of safe sex is having it in a safe environment.
No. I would open it and tell them to leave the door open.
Think about it this way (yes, I’ve looked at some other replies and know some won’t agree with me.)
If your son and his girlfriend are going to be sexually active, they are going to find a way. Would you rather it be somewhere you know that they can be safe or under some bridge or in the woods where someone or something could hurt them?
I go to my husband and say 'Honey, could you remove all the doors?'
No that is not okay behavior.
@emyywolf hey I read you post. It doesn't let me reply to your comment. You said you're so traditional and come from a religious house hold. So you hold high morals and values? Then why do you follow @danny_dan92 on here if he's a complete degenerate. You do realize he sends dick pics to girls on here, right?
That chick blocked me a long time ago. She's said herself before that she's a tomboy and that all women are primal and just want to be fcked by big dick men. She thinks like a child and behaves like one too. Especially with all her constant emoji spam and always writing in CAPS LIKE THIS. It's ridiculous.
Depends how old he is. If under 18, the door stays open
Yeah i would be ok with that. I know nothing gonna happen. How do i know that? Because i know girlfriend would not feel comfortable enough to have sex because there are people in the house who might walk in.
They're be studying alright. Just not in their room with the door closed.
But they say they need privacy to focus
Nope not with the door closed. You're just asking to be a grandparent.
No. Absolutely not! Teenagers are both impulsive and infamous for making decisions they regret later in life.
no way, not one that can be trusted, not at that age. get em through college at least.
Trying to get some peace and quiet? He’s looking to get quite a piece? Not on my watch, kiddo!
Nope, the door can stay open. No need to shut it.
i rush to the "nanny cam" just to make sure they are actually studying books.
Hell no, u can close doors when you get your own house , Mister 😆
I am surprised how many people don't respect their kids privacy.
I guess it only matters if you care that he will be impregenating her...
Nope. Why? Because I know what I was like as a teen.
How old would he be? If under 16 I would be opening his door
How old is he?
16 yo
If they’re too young to be having sex I wouldn’t be concerned they would be if they are I’d rather the door was shut😅
Yeah I'll have no problem with that. And it depends on how old he is, because most kids live with there parents untill their early 20s.
Depends on how well I felt I’ve raised him. If I did as well as my parents did with me, I would trust him.
Yes, because they are not alone. They are with Jesus, and Allah and Captain Crunch.
Better at home than somewhere else and be at risk.
No closed doors, if they want to have sex they can do it with the door open or go get a hotel room.
Door must be open, I ain't becoming a grandpa early.
Even if they not studying might aswell let them get to business aslong as they got protection
yes, imagine please for me right now, whats would be better place then he's own room?
I don't mind if he is focusing on his studies and enjoying his sex life.
Your allowed to hang out with friends but dirty stuff with people on the house is unacceptable.
Let them fuck, God created Sex.
How would you feel if you were cockblocked.
Hormones rage when your younger
It depends. For me? Probably just watching movies or playing games.
Sounds like Emily has quite the fantasy.
If they are 18 then yes but under 18 hell no
Yes, he has a life too.
my house is not a hotel no
Yes it’s totally ok
What if they start doing it?
And what if they are college students?
Yes, he can do what and who her chooses.
Yes I would.
Sure, why not?
That’s funny..
Nope lol
Depends, or puck no
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Most Helpful Opinions