Is living child-free the “Peter Pan” lifestyle?

[OddBeMe]

I have the highest urge to be productive but the lowest urge to be a parent.

Yes, we are here to multiply

Nah, you’re fine

Other

[Stoner710]

I’d rather be a good parent and be poor than a productive one. It’s our moral duty to have kids regardless of income. This is why I want to go back to a system where I don’t need to be rich as hell in order to provide for my family. In terms of food, I can provide all day long. In terms of meat without regulation, I can provide all day long, a deer as a single man last me about a year if I was married it would last me six months if I had two kids it would last me three months, but I could always go shoot another deer. Wild life conservation is important don’t take more then what you need we’ve lost that concept in the modern world

[OddBeMe]

So knowing your family will live poor…that’s not abuse? There’s no guilt in that?

[Stoner710]

Nope because I prove for my family I have enough food to prove I have enough to buy a gun and bullet and kill 4 deer a year, I raise chicken for eggs I have a milk Cow to provide milk for my family I raise bigs and make pork bacon and ribs out of the males and sell the females, I trade my goods form wool we have a heater for the winter and a wheel to keep ourselves cool during the summer. dogs for the kid, to play with plus other kids in the neighborhood. We take care of each other my main income is growthutn weed for the state a some for trade we don’t go on vacations to Hawaii but we live within our means and we take care of our own. My girl doesn’t work she is at joe taking care of the home while I’m at work. Inflation sucks so I’ve stopped buying a lot of soda beyond they I give to the homeless guys with a sigh 2$ because I can afford it and still spoil my wife with flowers that I picked up the side of the road and my daughter with nice dresses and the occasional candy bar. I never taught her how to shoot and take care of a car how am I a bad parent or husband. When I do all I can to make sure they live a good life.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You should teach her how to shoot.

[Stoner710]

@BoopBoopBeep already did that started her off with a.22

[BoopBoopBeep]

My bad... musta read that wrong.

[Stoner710]

@BoopBoopBeep you good I consider my girl my wife we want to get married but I can’t afford a ring which she is fine with we have 5 year old daughter who knows how to shoot a gun

[Berethor]

Well birth control is artificial and you don't pass the natural selection if you are childfree.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_selection

[OddBeMe]

So you’re saying there’s a moral demand to pass on natural selection? I’m not necessarily against you if so.

[Berethor]

You are ruining your family so yea there is an moral demand to that as well.

[OddBeMe]

Meaning what? The bloodline will be destroyed! It’s only down to all my cousins! I guess in the grand scheme, what’s that even matter. Unless you think your blood is better

[Berethor]

I think that my blood is better, not always, but in comparison to many other people.

[OddBeMe]

Why? How could you possibly know what your blood is or what your progeny would become?

Smart people have dumb children. Sexy celebs have unsexy children. The Nazis were so perfect as to have a farting Fuhrer, a club foot Goebells and a fat Goering.

[Berethor]

Selective breeding worked with domestic animals, sexy celebs likely to have sexy offsprings, unless they have offsprings with someone ugly, liberal propaganda is nonsense.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selective_breeding

[Rosexøxø]

Last time I checked, the world wasn’t having a human shortage lol

We have done our duty and occupied the earth. The biggest thing to do now is maintain it, not abuse, neglect, or overwhelm it with more people who would do nothing.

On this matter, I think you’re fine? 🤷‍♀️

[PBandJ_Nerd]

No. Just because you live child free doesn't mean you're a "forever kid," as you would still carry out adult responsibilities and importance.

[EricSummer]

This depends on personal preferences. I do not think it means you are refusing to grow up.

For example, we are having a baby now and you could say it's me refusing to grow up into old age. Of course, my girlfriend is a bit younger and she has never had a child. (I have two so far).

[Juxtapose]

There's over 7 billion people, we don't need anymore.

[OddBeMe]

Agreed

[OddBeMe]

Up to over 8 bill I think tho

[KrakenAttackin]

@Juxtapose. There is a population collapse coming.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@KrakenAttackin God willing.

#ThanosWasRight

[Juxtapose]

@KrakenAttackin 8 billion people is entirely too many so I am not that broken up about it.

[AnusNdaPainus]

How many people die a day?

[OddBeMe]

@AnusNdaPainus and I’m not sure this fertility issue and economic bubble of child care is a result and perhaps cure for overpopulation.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Overpopulation isn’t real.

[OddBeMe]

@AnusNdaPainus funny because depleting resources are.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Good if we don’t use those resources then who will?

Our future generations? Not likely

[Anonymous]

A lot of people who have children shouldn't had one so I think people who don't want children are ok.

[dolemite58]

i don’t see how not having kids makes you childish, some people physically can’t have kids and they shouldn’t be ridiculed for it.

[OddBeMe]

What if I chose not too? Because.,. I hate them with a passion of a thousand suns.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@OddBeMe
We're not an endangered species. You're good.

[OddBeMe]

@BoopBoopBeep you’re sure? I can impreg five chicks and have a future five Oddbeme’s for the future of gag. Just let me know.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@OddBeMe
I'm pretty sure i'll be long gone before they start posting, otherwise i'm not sure how my fragile ego could take that many people thinking i'm an idiot

Now if you had 5 rescue kittens...

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BoopBoopBeep how many people die a day

[OddBeMe]

@BoopBoopBeep my wife says I can impreg her only with kittens. And unfort that’s impossible. I think.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@AnusNdaPainus

166,324.

I don't care what anybody says I can't be linked to any of them and I wasn't even there for most. Frame somebody else copper!

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BoopBoopBeep lmao
But seriously
166,324 times 7 is…

[BoopBoopBeep]

@OddBeMe
Then what the F are we spending all this "Science research" money on?

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BoopBoopBeep that’s classified.

[OddBeMe]

@BoopBoopBeep fck Covid. Have cat ladies give birth to kittens.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@AnusNdaPainus
1.1mil per week
nearly 61mil/year... what's your point?

[inhua]

apparently for men it is. but for women, they're strong and independent

[EricSummer]

Where is that the case? Here in Switzerland a childless woman is always seen as a bit of a failure. For a man we do not even really say that he's childless. It is also completely acceptable not to have a woman.

[inhua]

@EricSummer in western countries outside of Switzerland

this site is notorious for shitting on MGTOW men and passport bros, trying to shame them into getting married and having kids.

virgin shaming happens a lot where labels like "loser" and "incel" have propped up as a result thus putting a man's value in life specifically on female validation

people start applying non-existent motives to to guys like Leonardo Di Caprio for not getting married

some places have a bachelor's tax and the belief being that single men are seen as irresponsible delinquents and that somehow a woman is needed to cure this

Switzerland might not be pushing men to have kids but there's a reason for that. men have always historically been seen as disposable and expendable. when a war breaks out, men must stay. when a ship is sinking, men must stay. when a woman's life is in danger, a man must sacrifice his otherwise "he's not a real man"

[EricSummer]

Ok, virgin shaming occurs here as well. There used to be intense peer pressure around 16 or 17 in the 1990s which now has been pushed beyond 20, but it is still there. I also remember that colleague who had a passion for lego brick models even when he was 40, but never had a partner which was seen as whimsical.

It's really more the sexually active man without kids who can even be a "chaud lapin" (hot rabbit) which in our language still carries some admiration. A high-ranking manager may live that way.

For a high-ranking female manager people will ask if she has kids and conclude that she sacrificed the bliss of a family for her job. It does not help the assessment in the slightest if she has a fulfilling sex life.

[gorydetails]

It’s a narcissistic, selfish lifestyle that will eventually bring regret.

[OddBeMe]

Swigs bourbon with nothing to do this weekend except fck and play red dead. Yep, I’ll get over it.

[gorydetails]

Wow, you play video games and consume poison? So fucking cool. I bet everyone on this website admires you for that.

[OddBeMe]

What are you a monk? You probably eat tons of fast food and then bitch about the chems in the vaccine.

[gorydetails]

Nope. I cook at home. Fast food is garbage..

[KrakenAttackin]

Odd, don't you have kids?

[OddBeMe]

No. I’m living the life. Married to a hot Latina fck toy. Works from home mostly. I should really bitch about anything.

But I will.

[Rosexøxø]

Hey she works from home? Or you?

[OddBeMe]

@Rosexøxø I do. Perfectly suitable to be a stay at home dad. Just don’t want to…

[Rosexøxø]

I don’t know what you mean, but I know what you mean! 🤣

[OddBeMe]

@Rosexøxø wink

[KrakenAttackin]

@OddBeMe. Dude, kids are the best.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@KrakenAttackin
My rescue kittens don't have as high of tuition.