Do you think it's immature for a 37 year old man who has a child to go out clubbing with his friends and stays out until 8 AM?

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blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

If he does like once in a blue moon (once a year) and it was PLANNED ahead of time that’s one thing. 37 or not he still needs to a live a little occasionally. But yes it’s very immature if he does it all the time. Especially on a drop of a hat.

Honestly I actually hated going clubbing when I was much younger. Hated waiting in line. Hated buying overpriced drinks. Hated paying the penis tax (cover for guys). Hated the loud music and being unable to hear anybody. Hated the pretentious and obnoxious attitudes. Hated how women dressed up just for attention yet didn’t want to be approached. Hated how gender ratio was rarely advantageous for guys.

I found it to be one of the least effective ways to pick up women. I only went because all my friends always went and the option was either stay home alone or go. But it was such a shit show. In hindsight I was I had the willpower to just tell my friends “no thanks I hate clubs”

So as an older man I’m relieved there isn’t pressure to do this crap anymore.

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

I think, kid or no, it's pretty pathetic to be 37 and clubbing period.

Zatsuma · Accepted Answer

You can't blame them for being who they are.

It's a fact -"The average male does not reach full emotional maturity until 43, whereas the average woman matures at 32."

Sometimes I wish my mother or at least my human biology teacher taught us this way ahead of time as I would have gone for a much older man.

Dinklex3 · Accepted Answer

I don’t think that alone makes him immature. Depends on his behavior when “clubbing”. Is it constant? Is he neglecting his responsibilities? Spending money recklessly?

Anonymous · Answer

No.  That is not what immature means.  Everyone uses the word wrong instead of blaming the person for choosing to be fucked up. Immature means you have emotional or intellectual development of someone younger. That's not something to bully someone over. They cannot control that but that isn't what is happening here and USUALLY it is never what is happening.  Girls just toss that word out left and right  these days. Instead of actually blaming the guy for his CHOICE. Even if someone wants to be different that is okay but blame their choice not other factors.

Exterminatore · Answer

I think a 37 yr old clubbing is lame. To be fair I think clubbing is lame at any age, but particularly at that age.

I also think it’s highly suspicious if he’s not single.

Reminds me of girls who are married dressed like complete sluts and claiming they’re just going on a girls night out to have fun. I mean, apparently you can’t have fun with the girls unless you’re dressed like a whore and in a location designed for hookups and meeting potential romantic interests and wearing clothing expressly designed to allure men…. men whom they’re not currently married to.

goaded · Answer

A couple of times a year, no. Much more than that, then maybe. Would you be saying the same thing about a mother doing the same? How about spending a day at a wellness resort?

matchrestore · Answer

It really depends on a lot more context than is provided here. If its not a weekly occurrence- say he's got some old friends coming to town for a weekend, of course its fine to do that every once in a while. But if its every week, its time to grow up a bit.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, because children don't go out clubbing, let alone until 8am. They play video games and play with toys and trading cards and watch cartoons/anime and crash a bit after midnight.

Clubbing is boring though, gaming, cards, cartoons and toys are more fun. The world would be a better place with more adults acting like "children" instead of like boring old farts or stupid drunk people.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

how often is it?  every night, hella immature. once a week/ longer- the dude is still allowed to have fun. I like mcdonalds solo time, he likes clubbing.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

It is his rights to do that. But the question is, is he being responsible? Is he having any contribution to the family? Is he taking care of the child when he's not clubbing? If yes, then he deserves to do what he wants on his break time as long as he's responsible for his actions. Unless he's a deadbeat who goes clubbing all the time. That's crossing the line

RavVid · Answer

If he hasn't done that for a long time I could see it might be fun. If he is doing it every weekend I would think it is being immature.

Obviously a spouse or girlfriend is going to think the worst of what he might be doing.

nastyb · Answer

he's probably not the sole parent of the child. i know a lot of men who parents just once a month while the kid lives with mom. if he were the sole parent, he wouldn't have the time to do that sort of thing

rebeliouse · Answer

whats wrong with it maybe he enjoys it are you restricting what he is allowed to do based on what you find fun? maybe he doesn't like going to a sowingbe till 8am that's not something to judge him on.

if your judging him on stuff like that you have serious issues with your relationship

Apple1996 · Answer

37 is too old to be going out clubbing

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

Immature. No try lack of intelligence by both so called parents. Poor kid or kids are gonna grow up so screwed up

4ngelic · Answer

as long as it's not everyday its fine. you only live once so go for it. it's not cos you have kids that your life gotta be dry

AngryCarl2 · Answer

That's one thing I haven't missed since I got old.

lilBigPotato · Answer

As long as he doesn't neglect his duties as s dad it's ok. Getting a child doesn't mean that you can't have fun anymore in life

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, it's called responsibility.  some guys do that, in effect, to make more offspring, which they expect others to care for.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Go clubbing with friends? No. Staying out til 8am? Yes, because that would probably worry his partner to no end.

Sitaraxx · Answer

Does he have the wife as well or just the child?

JackCarter · Answer

I think its ok once a while if that's what he loves doing Too often? Immature and irresponsible for sure...

EmmaMary · Answer

I do believe my answer should be fairly obvious.

molonski2 · Answer

Hess only 37 ! Fck me , its where he should be , just a very young guy - enjoy !

Anemone978 · Answer

I don't know why you being dumb enough to have a kid with a guy who still clubs at 37 :D

Andres77 · Answer

It’s irresponsible and sets a horrible example.

exitseven · Answer

If it was a very rare occurrence it would be okay but if he is doing it a lot he needs to grow up.

Staximus · Answer

If his child is at his home then he's a shit bag. If the child is at his ex's house that night and he doesn't have to come home and take care of his child, then it's not that bad.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Im 36... my boyfriend is 46... and we are partying hard until 13.00 Sunday

With afters and all

The dj ages is between 30 and 60... how can this not be a normal age for clubbing or raving

Dont be boring

worldscolide · Answer

Depends on how often.. if it's once a year.. Yeah it's fine. If it's all the time hell no that's unacceptable.

TallAnon · Answer

Having fun is what life's all about, don't let anyone tell you to stop having fun. You have responsibilities, so cover your bases, but then go for it!

pethouse · Answer

I think it’s Immature for anyone who has a child to go out clubbing. Like every once in awhile Its ok but when your doing it once a month or once a week then yeah you should stop.

jeffend888 · Answer

Extremely. I don't know any successful person who even goes clubbing at that age, let alone with a nuclear family/child.

Vegasrunner · Answer

I would say it's more immature for a woman to believe she has the right to question a grown man about going out.

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the circumstances. Is it once a month after he has been a good husband and father all month?

Anonymous · Answer

If its planned well ahead of time then No, but if its every weekend the n its immature. But the you could ask the same of mothers who do the exact same thing.

gothbxtch · Answer

as long as he doesn’t do it daily or anything, same with any adult of any age

TacosRAwesome · Answer

More like suspicious. Clubs don't open till 8am.

Raaj4you · Answer

No, it's fun to go clubbing with his friends. Spending all the time with your wife is boring. You can meet new girls at the club. 😂😅🤣

Christoff92 · Answer

Let them enjoy their lives. One day they'll be old in a scooter, walking stick, etc.

Jerre · Answer

As long as someone responsible is taking care of his child, I see no problem

DJB72 · Answer

It's immature at 27...

sarahnina · Answer

As long as you are responsible and take care of your kid and everything why tf not? 🤷‍♀️💯

Anonymous · Answer

It's none of your business woman. Stay in your place.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Why? Don't females do the same?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Who the hell has this kind of time?

AndLikeThatHesGone · Answer

It's not so much weird as... pathetic.

JCT666 · Answer

Depends how often it is.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. At that age clubbing days should be over.

Sabretooth · Answer

Ain't seen you in awhile.

Anonymous · Answer

Big ole man child right there.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Of course it’s highly immature

eagle1951 · Answer

once in a while maybe, but not all the time

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes.

Grovermint · Answer

Yes.

azgınteke · Answer

not good

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