I am pretty outgoing and not shy , I am usually the one that breaks the ice and gets everyone talking and chatting instead of just sitting there with their fingers up their ass , I been told a bunch of times that I am the start of a party , mainly cuz I am not shy and I like to mingle
I used to be " one of those guys " but that has changed a lot since then , more happy to access , and go on the vibe , one person does not create an event , so the feel is vital.
we don't really have a party like the ine in wesyern countries but i am just friendly and i join if i find something fun. i am more of the ine who just blend not life of the party, noy florty more loke a grown up kid
When I was a lot younger, leaving a party, and walking by the kitchen window of their house... one of the guys said..."Well, there goes the life of the party"... That made my day.