My toxic friend?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend, we've been friends for a long time, but her behavior has started to become very toxic, and I am uncomfortable with it, so I have reduced communication with her. tomorrow is her birthday do you think i should send a birthday message

[Changiis07]

If she’s becoming too toxic and you already cut communication then maybe you shouldn’t send her anything

[Asker]

No, we didn't completely cut off communication, but

I reduced our communication and she asked me why we did not talk nowadays, i said u don't text I don't text that's why, then she shared a story like that:u always text to that friend but she never texts to u, and u guys did not talk again

[strateguy632]

send a birthday message. and stop over reacting being too sensitive.

[Asker]

It's not over reacting, she is toxic, u don't know what she did

[Anonymous]

No dont send. Its better to be completly cut off

[Asker]

we will see each other at school this year, i really dont even want see

[Opinion Owner]

doesn't matter. You are in school to learn not for friends. Just focus on learning and hang out with whoever you want

[Asker]

You're right, I always expected her to change, but she always offended me and expected an apology from me.

[Opinion Owner]

What happened?

[Asker]

I've been friends with her for years, but she's changed, for example, we complimented her body, then she said to us: I'm offended, -apologize we just said:WOW what a good body u can eat anything but still look fit,

[Asker]

or she always talks about her boyfriend but he is bad person always harm her but she always chase him and we always listen her but when its my problem she say:AHH OKKK dont be sad and again she start talk about her self

[Asker]

The thing that bothered me was this:we have mutual friend and she told me :lets celebrate our mutual freidns bd, and i said okay but when i went there she already prepared everything and did not tell me , cakes gifts she prepared with other girls but did not tell me. and when bd finished she came and told me:Can u give money for birthday for cakes and gifts

[Asker]

if we are close friend , i thought we are close friend , why u did not tell me anything, why?

[Asker]

by the way English is not my native language sorry if i have mistakes

[Opinion Owner]

I understood everything and yeah you are right for cutting her off. She is not your friend she doesn't respect you. Just focus on yourself. Be nice to everyone but no need to hang out with her:)

[Asker]

Yes i did not celebrate her birthday, thanks for your advice 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Cool! No worries. Best of luck!:)