Do you think my cousin was correct in spilling the beans to his dad?

[kitty71]

I spent 3 weeks in Europe with mysome of my closest cousins and one cousins kids on a vacation trip. During the trip from time to time (not always though) I texted my sister and tell her about how I was doing. The cousins I went to this trip with are very delicate people, they get upset with stupid things and things that are really irrelevant. One day as i was texting my sister and she asked how I was doing and she even asked me if there had been any diagreemnts among my cousins or if there had been a cousin who had to upset about anythinng I told her yes. While I was texting my sister the kid of one of the cousisn I was traveling with was reading what I was texting to my sister. I had not even noticed my cousin wa reading that behind my back cause I was walking forward whilke texting on the street. but some way my cousin kid was behind me reading the conversation and he event too a screen shot of the conversation. What this couisin did was totally incorrect, snooping on someones private conversation and even worse behind my back and taking a screen shot of what I wrote to my sister Not onky that but this cousin was a snitch and went and told his dad that my sister and me were speaking about him. The father read my conversation to my sister about him and he got pretty pretty upset at me for telling things about him and his issues to my sister. Of couse I know what waswrong from my part but my cousin kid did worse he went behind my back tooka screen shot (proof) photo and gave it to his dad and for atht my cousin stopped talking to me and up to this date he continue to be angry at me so during 5 days of our Europe trip he did not even say a word to me, silence between him and myself and im a bit sad due to this cousin and I were very close and from this incident he now I assume no longer trust me. What I spilled to my sister was only to her she did not share it wuth anyone else anyway, it was onky to her periodl.

[AviatorTom]

Your cousin was wrong for snooping on your text. But you also need to take some responsibility. You were texting in public where (obviously, as proven by your cousin) others could see what you were texting. Maybe, in future, you can take more care in where and how you text?

[kitty71]

So if I was texting in public? Everyone does it anyway on the street while walking that is pretty normal. But I was not aware my cousin was right behind me reading what I wrote and went afterwards and tell his dad what I wrote to my sister about him and his dad. He read my text as I was going down the stairs on a metro station. And the hypocrecy of all. The same cousin who was a snitch minutes later told me his dad was the one who saw what I wrote. I mean I doubt my second cousin dad was the one snooping on someones else phone it was his 21 yrd old immature son, Im pretty sure.

[AviatorTom]

@kitty71 Typical... blame someone else instead of taking responsibility yourself. Sad.

[kitty71]

and now this cousin dad is so pissed at me that he stopped talking to me while we were in in Europe having fun him and other relatives. I bet he no longer trust me anymore and dont want to talk to me anymore.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You're 52 and worried about what your cousin's dad thinks? How did he even get your phone to read what you texted?

[VIVANT]

She said explained it very clearly if you read the post,

[kitty71]

He is one of my close cousins I dont have much relationships with other cousins only this cousin and his immediate family that is what I made me a bit of sad he got mad for it as im sure he lost trust in me. He was so mad at me that for the remaining of our European trip (5 straight days in a row) he stopped talking to me and I did the same anyway. Before the incident we joked we laughed he made funny jokes on me and even told me and the rest of the group what this trip will be without me, after the incident all of that changed particularly from him, not the rest of the group that were traveling, even his sister who knew about the situation and she could even side with her brother could stop also talking to me but she did not.

[Jerre]

No, he was totally wrong. If you can, it’s time to separate yourself from that cousin.