One of my best friends, and I were super close last school year, but now for some reason we don't talk as much. However, she is still my friend. She recently had a falling out with another one of my friends who I have been growing closer to recently. They both mean so much to me but they both now hate each other and don't really want to resolve things! I'm afraid they might get mad at me for being close to each of them but I don't know what to do! This has been going on for months now. Please help!!
Unfortunately growing up often means growing apart. High school friends don't always stay friends. If they don't want to talk to you, there's not much you can do. Maybe they change their mind and reach out again one day. Maybe they don't. That's just how it goes.
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You can’t force someone to get along. But be firm that you don’t have dog in this fight and you’re not going to be dragged into this drama.
Trying to jump in the middle of things could just make things worse and then you’ll be stuck in the middle of it all.
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You’re responsible to each of them for being a friend. You can’t be responsible for them and how they choose to react.
You will have to talk this out or just move on from it.
least said easer to mend in a day or so things will be better
You could try talking to them individually and see if that helps.
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