What should I do and should I attend?

[legalboxers]

A persons father who I know passed. This person gave me undue grief for 15 years. During this time the father as well gave me grief. Should I attend their funeral and if so why should I. I dont like the father and I sure as hell hate the son who I hate the most

[coachTanthony]

You should of told them how you felt and created a boundary a long time ago. You are now feeling guilty because they have no idea how you feel? And If they do know how you feel then why even ask this question. Obviously don't go.

[legalboxers]

@coachTanthony They know but since I was part of an organization they "expect me" to...

[Likes2drive]

I wouldn’t go if that’s how you feel about it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If you feel bad about the whole situation, I just wouldn't go. My late Great Uncle also my late Grand-dads brother, treated me like shit, and he had money, he would make fun of the old house I lived on Lincoln. He said, he read in the newspaper it was coming up to be condemned. Then he would laugh about he said, yes he was an old son-of-bitch all my life it seemed I had to deal with asswipe people but in your situation I would not go. When my Great Uncle passed away, I did not go view him or to his funeral because I looked back on how horrible he treated me. He was loaded with money and not one time did he stop down and said, hey Darren here is a $20.00 for groceries, nope I had to eat what there was in the refrigerator or in the cupboard.

[Anonymous]

Why go if you don't like them? I wouldn't go.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Obviously don't go.