My brother tells me that I didn't achieve anything in life after every little tiny argument?

[Anonymous]

ok my brother is financially very well off. im still in my 20's trynna figure shit out. He's 1,5 half years older than me. We still live together in a tiny house with 2 rooms 4,5 people. So arguments happen. But after every argument he loves to tell that I didn't achieve shit. Like shiii I get it how many times are u intending to say it. I just wanna figure out the psychological background of him feeling the urge to say this so often. I gotta job and I'm gonna move out anyway. He really acts like I'm a villain tbh.

[rosemilk]

a brother that's financially well off yet still lives at home? you can totally take a dig at that. absolutely. what's he waiting around for still living at home if he's so financially well off? sure, he can say the same for you, but you're not the one who is as "successful" as him so what's his excuse?

and if this is his house that you're living at, then how come he can't pay his own mortgage without having to share it with 4 other people?

[exitseven]

Some people are insecure and belittle others to make themselves feel better about themselves.

[Crankor]

It may be his way of saying he doesn't want you to fail in life from his viewpoint.