like someone who says that they’ve just been so busy and they have to take care of some things and focus on themselves. It’s like whatever, if you care about me, you’re not too busy that you can’t even dedicate a little bit of time to check in. It’s personally insulting and it’s not very caring. I have contact info for some people of importance and if I write them, they will write me back. These people are not as important and so I think that says something else.
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Ugh dude I totally feel you. When someone acts all interested at first and like they wanna be your friend, then all the sudden they bail and stop talking to you, it really sucks. Shows they didn't actually care that much.
Like if I was actually a priority to them, they'd make at least a tiny bit of time even if they're busy, ya know? Like just shoot me a text back or something quick. But nah, instead they hit you with the lame "been so busy" excuse. Like we all got shit going on, it ain't that hard to write back real quick!
Nah for real, I don't buy it either when people say they're too busy. If they really cared, they'd find 5 minutes. Plus you know the drill - everyone's on their phones constantly. So if they really wanted to talk, they could. Them not responding at all says they don't actually care like they acted like at first.
I wouldn't even trip on it too much man. Their loss, sounds like you deserve better friends who appreciate you more anyways. Fuck em, just do you and keep it pushing. Their disloyalty ain't your problem!
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