Do you think women are better friends or men are better friends?

[whistlingwh0res]

Women are better friend

Men are better friend

Same

Neither

Result

[celeste01]

Generalising a whole gender's capacity to be a good friend based on a few life experiences is a bit odd, because both genders can be good friends, it's really about personal character.

That being said I've made really good male friendships but they often were short-lived, because we grew apart/ moved on, there are only a few close guy friends I have currently. However, my female friendships have been a lot more sustainable, both parties have made effort to ensure the friendship continues e. g calling, texting planning trips together etc

[CoolCatMar1]

Ι have both and tbh males seem better... My female friends seem to be sometimes a bit ironic or cold. But not my besties they mostly are okay girls but my friends.. like female classmates with whom i sometimes talk at uni they seem cold are weird with me while i am sweet and always polite

[RebelinSteel]

Both have the capacity to be great friends and both have the capacity to be complete arseholes. A person (guy or girl) can be a great friend with another person (guy or girl) but then be a complete arsehole with other people. Humans are to varied and then put in social dynamics, cultural differences, social media expectations it gets even more mixed up.

[AJR78]

Question is too general and not specific enough.

Perhaps a single question isn't enough.

For a man, who makes a better friend, a male or a female?

For a woman, who makes a better friend, a male or a female?

Are hetero same sex friendships better than hetero intersex friendships?

[AJR78]

Also wanted to add, the question as it is becomes a gender vs gender argument. Essentially asking who is better or realer or more genuine, men or women? For the question to have value and be of utility for discussion and analyses, there needs to be the types of context I mentioned in my original post.

[rosemilk]

girls come with drama and jealousy.

guys come with absolutely no issues, except wanting to maybe date you or something. but they certainly tell it like it is.

[Anonymous]

It all comes down to character.

But as a guy I think I can identify, understand and trust a guys motives more than I can a woman's.

I know some amazing women friends. But they are all quality women. We don't always agree. But I never question where their heart is at.

[AviatorTom]

That's an impossible comparison. Women and men treat friendships differently. Men's friends watch sports and drink together. Women's friends share their life stories with each other. Neither is better than the other, just different.

[serious]

I think it is relative to the gender in question.

Means for men, women would be better friends and for women, men would be better friends.

[IslaTheWitch]

I have had only one female friend since high school (there were two, but one passed away some time ago...). The rest of my friendships were created with men :D

[Paris13]

Although In School, I Was Pretty and Popular with Both------During My Years Of being Out On My Own------Guys. xxoo

[LiamJHayden]

It depends. My absolute lifelong best friend is a girl, as are three of the five in my inner circle. I have also known girls, and a few guys, who live for manufactured drama.

[RavVid]

A lot of women say it is hard to have a good female friend so lets believe them. Guys are more constant than girls

[Joshydavid25]

I don't think gender plays a role, I mean men and women can be great friends.. It's more of a character thing really.. They both provide their ways of God friendships..

[Slapmynuts]

I'm sure there are good friends for both genders and the opposite as well. My response is obviously bias (being a guy) but guys tend not to gossip as much compared to women. Then again, I'm sure someone could argue the opposite! Lol🤔🤪

[Drewtate]

Men are better friends generally. Women screw friends over.

[Account]

Most of the friendships that have endured with time so far were with women.

[NathanDavis]

my best friend is a woman

but my dude friend is no less of a best friend either

[Squatting_Slav]

I think they're both equally as good men. Women are not as honest with you but provide and a completely different perspective on things and are calming. Men are hype merchants and brutally honest

[LadyKitty]

Neither because you can find good friends regardless of gender.

[DarkWinterNights]

I can’t BS with women the same way I do with other guys.

[Iron_Man]

it depends are they really friends or. something more

[KrakenAttackin]

"A friend will help you move, a brother will help you move a body". 😁

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Has nothing to do with gender, not I believe in friends anyways.

[VonDutch_daguys]

People are all the same at the end of the day so no contest