Do men or women make better friends?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Which gender do you get along with better?

Men

Women

Neither/I don't have friends/I don't care

[AmandaYVR]

I think teenage boys and guys in their low-mid twenties are too sexually charged from puberty etc. to make really solid friends with females their own age, their peers. But once they get those heeby jeebies out, they calm down and can be great friends. Just as females:females can be. The thing with same-sex friends is, always, an innate element of competition. With opposite-sex friends, that's eliminated. But sexuality comes into play. In either case, they're pitfalls, or can be troublesome, but they don't negate at least trying. When I was young, and before I got married, my friends were mostly female (though not all; had many male friends at work), but as I've aged, I find females are much less motivated to be friends. They don't reach out as much. So now I enjoy more male friendships, because their differing outlooks and viewpoints, from that male perspective, are a bit less predictable than all-female relationships. I'd like both, but one tends to happen more often for me now.

[Amy10223]

You can't generalise by gender. You have to see the person for whom they are. They have to be trusting, truthworthy, sincere, communicative, honest and caring about you. If any of those are missing or if the person is lacking in other areas, then they aren't a good friend.

[NathanDavis]

better people make better friends... that's it

personally, I do happen to happen to have more women as close and best friends, part of that is that I do get along better with women because I do find them way more interesting and also because of the way in which those friendships developed over time

basically, I never liked to hang out with stupid people or to do stupid things all the time... and men just happen to be more into that than women are... lmfao

[Blackcupcake]

see how many men you offended with the amount of dislikes? LMFAO

[NathanDavis]

@Blackcupcake but none of them speak up...

because they know it is true

[Blackcupcake]

@NathanDavis lmfao… we all know it😎

[NathanDavis]

@Blackcupcake I know

I've done it myself, I'm a man

[Blackcupcake]

@NathanDavis you mean ALPHA man

[NathanDavis]

@Blackcupcake I do smack short-face bears for fun and a morning workout...

[Blackcupcake]

@NathanDavis *smacks you for smacking the bears* -,-

you see my pfp right? leave the bears alone -,-

[NathanDavis]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKDdT_nyP54

[Blackcupcake]

@NathanDavis my grandpa used to love that song…

ANYWAYS, you have been warned -,-

[NathanDavis]

@Blackcupcake lmfao...

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

For me women, but that's because for some reason 8/10 of the people around me are women.

I would like to have more close men friends, but for some reason I can't manage to get or keep them.

[Blackcupcake]

both, it’s not a gender thing, you just need to find those great people regardless of gender. I have however had, more male close friends that females as I was a tomboy growing up and therefore just clicked better with the dudes.

[Msputiton]

I prefer women friends.

But I got plenty of both

[SphynxUK]

I get along better with men or neurodiverse females. Both are quite honest, don’t talk for the sake of talking, are matter of fact and don’t bitch or bullshit.

[jennifer_bloom]

Its debatable. Men are more honest and protective but women are more personal and sympathetic and joyful.

[sirderpsalot123]

I get along with most people, but I have more male friends.

[sirderpsalot123]

I voted A

[dustybiker]

In my personal experience, men make better friends.

[Summeroflove]

You know. This depends on the person. Finding good people is what matters

[MCheetah]

Option A for men.
Option B for ladies.
Option C for me.

[SnowedIn]

I get along better with women so I selected B for me.

[Rainbow_Warming]

Usually women. But that also means in some circumstances men.

[Rockstarrrrr]

As a guy I'd say men... Just more relatable... Female friends are really nice too but they always hit on you at some point lol

[LiamJHayden]

Compatible individuals. Most of mine are female, but that's because I have a few I have had since elementary school or earlier.

[ChiTown33]

Either. It's not a gender thing, it's a morals, values and mutual respect thing.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Men

Ask yourself why most women if not all rather have male friends than female friends.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Men. Women are better at making one feel better, but men will help you feel better about yourself!

[Fuentes]

My own ofc lol I have female friends I know not to try to fuck cause If I do we won't remain friends I get bored and ignore.

[KostasKouvalis]

Women for sure. I almost only talk to women now. They're more compasionate

[BLP11520]

That depends somewhat on you and who you are. I have had good friends male and female. Men are much more predictable in what they say.

[Bananas83]

I'd say I can be friends with both but I gravitate towards women more.

[Jerre]

I voted B, I get along wit women much better than men

[Jerre]

Thank you for the Like