I broke down crying giving away some of my grandpas things to the family but I wanted them to have something that reminded them of grandpa as well. My grandma told me to get myself together and people do this when their love one passes on and it’s life. I kept the necklace and a couple things of my grandfather. My grandmother of course has her wedding ring from 1960. She better keep that, and a couple things too and got his bed and dresser. My grandma and I also inherited my grandpa estate. I feel so guilty. He did wanted us to have it and added my name with grandmas. Everyone told me I need to be strong and move on with my life.
sorry for your loss. it is best to grieve as much as you need and then you need to move on. let yourself feel sad but then you need to get on with the day. your grandpa wouldn't want you to be sad.
it is true that it is life, when someone dies you have to give away their things. you can't keep everything, it's not possible. you just keep the most special and important things and you also have memories.
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He Must Have Thought A LOT About Your Kind Heart in The Family. No More Grieving. xxoo
Keep the memories. The other things are just things even though they trigger memories. Keep something but let most of it go, just like he did with his grandfather and others.
As your last sentence says. Be strong and move on! Fact of life. Loved ones don’t live forever and you are not the first to experience this.
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