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i was at an event in london on Monday with around 50-100 people around me. it was very messy and very strict on where you could go. we were in a small huddle under a roof.
last time i was at one of these events i was being threateneed god knows what just because i needed to be with people i knew because i wasn't well and my flight had got cancelled. they were accusing me of q jumping when i wasn't, i just couldnt be on my own as mum had to go to the hotel to put our luggage in. they were horrible to me and it left me shaken at the time.
i ignored the person who behaved like that this time even though i had to stand near him. he's quite a heafty person despite being blind (or so he says) he even tried to push into my spot despite him being there all day (i only got there at like an hour before the event started) so at one point or another i had ended up in his little spot by accident, i was given permission by someone else to go over to them i wouldn't have done it otherwise
later on nearly the time it had finished i was standing behind someone (probably the same heigh/build/skin colour as him) and i felt the persons elbow hit my nose. it caused pain and at the time my neck was twitching like mad. i was shaking and had to call 111 and get first aid from our hotel as it hurt the back of my head quite bad. there was no blood thankgod and i hadn't fallen (which ieasily couldve due to my vertigo) i couldnt see the persons face who did it. i want to report it or get the venue to check it out to see if it was an accident/done on purpose. how could someone not know that theyd elbowed into someone?
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If you're threatened and then assaulted it's likely to be the same person if it's deliberate. My advice would be to speak to the police and ask them how to see any security videos to establish if it was a deliberate or accidental issue.
In England there's possibly a case of ABH if you're injured following a threat - that's Actual Bodily Harm and is a higher charge than common assault. It's worth investigating to see if it was the person who threatened you.
even if it happened months apart? funnily enough they were talking to me fairly normal behaviour after it happened. they werent standing in that place the whole night and i know someone similar was running around behind everyone, they didn't have a space at the front. so its between either of them
I might have misunderstood. I thought it was the same night.
It's less likely to be assault and more likely an accident with a big difference in time.
yup, they were horrible when i arrived this time and as i said, funnily enough they were acting normal and nice after the hit happened. also because i had gone infront of them which is the thing they accused me off, even though the other person pulled me over
Speaking as an Englishman, the English aren't usually happy about queue jumping, but they/we don't usually resort to an elbow in the face months later.
However...
It's not impossible. If they remember you there's a minority who might be uncouth regarding queue etiquette.
If you have any belief it might be deliberate then try to find out if there's security videos available.
Yeah i wasn't though, i d never do that. I wasn't well and was on my own.. I had no intention od staying at the front and at these events everyone moves around anyway
Still no excuse to elbow a vulnerable girl in the nose though
I've been asking for pics to see who it was
He kept threatening to actually kill me so i wouldn't put it past him to do this especially after i had done that to get to the person who pulled me over, i wouldn't have done that if they hadn't.
Plus at the time he left the queue to go somewhere else. In my book once you leave a q for a length of time youve lost your place. The others were fine with me staying with them
I had no history of doing this before then. Back in 2018 he wasn't happy id gotten to the front of the queue before him. Nothing he could do about that. He lives in London which makes his behaviour even more ridiculous. I thought we used to be friendly enough aswell
The metropolitan police are reasonably good at investigating assaults. I'd contact them at this point. They can tell you if they're able to do anything, including subpoena any security footage of the incident.
Hope it works out for you 🤞
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