If you were allowed to design your family and lifestyle and job, what would it look like?

[jennifer_bloom]

I have said before, I want a kind guy who makes my life easier by doing half the chores or less if he is busy with other things. I want either my own kids or some people I adopt. I want to hire disabled people to help with chores and child care and buy them steak and lobster on their birthdays or religious holiday celebrations and let them live for very low fees in my home. I want to take my disabled friends on trips to Miami with my husband and I want to orchestrate volunteer sessions at seniors homes with our church.

[Anonymous]

Pretty much what it is now.

My wife and daughter, who are amazing. My wife working from home so we don't need a sitter, she likes to cook so I don't have to do that, and she doesn't like to do maintenence things so I can do all of those.

My job which I enjoy, has regular hours with weekends off so I can spend time with family and attend regular church services. Also pays enough my wife can pursue a career that takes longer to build up a steady income.

And our house which has an extra bedroom for emergencies and is in a decent neighborhood near my wife's family, our church, and my workplace. I would like to own it outright, but until we can afford that the rent is at least locked in at a decent price, and we have a decent landlord.