Is it okay to ground / spank my step son?

[Anonymous]

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my stepson slapped me today :/ what should i do?

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what should i do? i keep catching my stepson jerking off :/

[Staximus]

Where the hell is his dad? I don't know why you would get married to a guy with a kid at your age and take responsibility for that kid. Take away his phone, video games, all that bullshit. Kids will test you to see how much they can get away with. Don't give in.

[Asker]

work ;/
he has a lot of money and i have he slapped me

[Staximus]

If the kids is 16 and hitting a girl then he needs to get his ass beat. If you're 18 to 24 like your profile says, you're not in a position of authority and have no business to be trying to be a parent to a 16 year old

[Staximus]

The next time he hits you, call the police or have your husband kick his ass

[WindAtMyBack]

In general you should ask their biological parent. But if they slapped you, slap them right back - and slap them a lot harder than they slapped you. Make it something they remember, and it's highly unlikely they will do it again.

[alexsa]

No! Step son or biological son it's not righr nor ok.

[Jackblue]

Fewer parents these days are spanking their children. I think it should be avoided. Grounded perhaps if he did something really bad (having his own opinions isn't doing something really bad), but you should ask your husband if he agrees with the punishment, as the kid's biological father he should have more say.

[ProbablyClueless]

Grounding would definitely be okay, but spanking is a bad idea. Putting your hands on someone else's kid is just asking for trouble. Tell your husband that his son slapped you and come up with how you will respond together.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Ground, mehhh, if you are really out of options.

Spank. Never.

[Asker]

okay

[RavVid]

You would need to have the ok from the father and possibly from the mother for spanking. Grounding would be fine

[Wiredone]

Definitely ground him. Personally, I was spanked when I was growing up. I learned to respect my elders from it. I don't see a problem with it.

[Wiredone]

If you are 18 to 24 years old, how old is your stepson

[Asker]

i’m 18 his 16

[Wiredone]

And your husband is how old?

[Wiredone]

I think 18 is too young to be married but it's just my opinion

[Asker]

hubby 46

[Wiredone]

Ok. I'm just going to not comment to avoid any arguments

[Asker]

i told hubby about his son he says i can decline how i want but his jerking off too much

[PapaJedi]

What did u mean?

Your stepson slapped u?

[Asker]

he slapped men

[Asker]

he slapped me

[nawtee_me]

You should have slapped him back when it happened. It is too late for that now but yes stand up for yourself. How old is he?

[Asker]

his is a16

[nawtee_me]

Well since he is not a child you need to let him know that won’t be tolerated. I know there is not much age difference in the two of you so he is going to test the waters. Talk to his dad and have him talk to him as well. If you are not careful he will don you and use you….

[Asker]

i slapped him today

[nawtee_me]

Good for you. He needs to know you won’t put up with it. Can I ask if he had walked in on you changing or showering? Being so close in age it would seem a natural act for him? Or have you on him?

[Asker]

his jacking off all the time

[nawtee_me]

I thought as much at his age. You as well?

[handsomelad70]

Ground, yes, spank, no. (What is it about Yankees' spanking their kids, anyway?)

[Anonymous]

Step son is on shaky ground. How does your partner feel about that?

[DarkLegacy]

Violence towards kids is never acceptable

[Asker]

his a teenager

[DarkLegacy]

Lol and you are in that age range.

[Asker]

i’m 18 and a adult
his 16 and a spoil brat

[DarkLegacy]

Lol wtf

[Asker]

why wtf?

[msc545]

Gound maybe. Spank never.

[Asker]

my husband mad i spank him

[msc545]

stop trolling

[Asker]

not trolling

[msc545]

Bullshit

[jahaims]

Spanking is an ignorant way to discipline a child

[Anonymous]

Only if using a wooden spoon

[MrDaveAPSI]

nope