My daughters uses her body to get what she wants how can I correct her?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Sadly you can’t really do anything , you can give her advice to not be that way but it’s going to be up to her if she makes that decision. I have a daughter that did the same thing , All I did was give her tough love , and told her I will Always love her and be there for her but I can only protect her so much , I told her if she likes the reputation she will receive for being a whore than understand , you will be considered a whore and I am sorry I. can’t help you with that situation, you are digging your own grave with that one and if it does t stop , you are best to go find somewhere else to live because i am not going to tolerate that behavior on my home. So you either get your head on straight or get the fuck out. If she leaves? Let her leave , it will be a matter of time before she comes back and realizes what she was doing was wrong. And tell her if she ends up raped or in a ditch somewhere , I’m sorry you didn’t want to take my advice. Sometimes children need to hit rock bottom before they realize how stupid they are being. If your daughter is 18 , sadly there isn’t much you can do , just tell her she is the laws problem now

[RavVid]

It is pretty easy for a girl to get what she wants with her body. Particularly as it is glorified by feminism.

If she doesn't have the maturity to see that it will result in bad outcomes I don't think you can correct her.

Is it OF or low key prostitution in getting men to pay for things she wants or full on prostitution?

In replies you mention her dad has an 18 yo girlfriend that always dresses like a whore, so I assume she is younger. Even so, one thing she can do, is to use her body to run away so your ability to correct her is very limited and from what you say it seems unlikely she will accept correction.

Sorry.

[Daniela1982]

Hard to reverse the workings of a ho. Sometimes they just have to self-destroy their lives to get the message. Or, they could profit by marrying a rich old fart.

[rosemilk]

by doing nothing. the more you push her or yell at her or get angry at her, the more she will want to rebel just to spite you. let her make her own mistakes.

[D_Bone_Steak]

You didn't teach her before she had the body... now she's only going to learn from her own mistakes. Give her two week with me... she won't know my name and will be pregnant with my baby.

And my point is it's probably going to take something like having a child with no man to get her to realize she's only getting what she wanted on a short term level.

[hanabunny]

She's only 14 dude don't say that 😂

[midnightmoon05]

@hanabunny how do you know that she is 14?

“You didn’t teach her before she had her body…” totally agree.

[hanabunny]

@midnightmoon05 The asker said so in another comment if you look lol but obviously this guy didn't know that so I'm mostly teasing

[D_Bone_Steak]

@hanabunny Oof yeah didn't know the age. I stop at the legal age. With that said though, there are guys out there that won't respect the law and think with their dicks. Her daughter is playing with fire.

[riskysweet]

You just need to sit down and talk to her. Why and for what is that she feel she needs to sell her body? Is it for something outrageous which you won't give her money for? Is it because someone else put the idea in her head that it is ok to do it? Is it because of peer pressure that everyone else is doing it and why can't I?

There could be very simple explanations to why she is behaving this way. Be a mom and talk to her, listen. You will find ways to help her.

[Asker]

i talked to her she says i don’t understand and leaves

[riskysweet]

She is your daughter. You can't give up on her, just because she doesn't let you in the first time.

[PeachyPie93]

Love her. Most sluts are seeking the love her parents never gave her at home.

[DrPepper12]

I don't know about nature vs nurture... Some girls were just BORN to have a cock in their mouth! I've met a few... 😂

[PeachyPie93]

@DrPepper12 It starts from childhood lol Girls seek validation from men to try and remedy that they feel unlovable because their parents but more so their fathers didn't love them or weren't there for them.

[PeachyPie93]

And her mother obviously never taught her to respect herself and her body before the age of 12 because a girl who learns that wouldn't behave this way.

[DrPepper12]

Yeah. I've seen some of that among HS girls. Looking anywhere for love And validation without boundaries. Even moms competing with daughters to attract daughters male friends. Good point!

[Surely]

Get her an IUD. So she can’t accidentally forget the pill. Then cross your fingers until she is out of school. Then turn her loose.
As you said. 14 is a lot old to try and change her until she is ready to accept change.

[chrissykerdock]

make her wear shorter dresses/skirts and see what happens maybe she'll ffeel ashamed

[HelpfulWoman]

let her. its only her making herself out to be trash.

[Anonymous]

Ok so where did she learn that? Is her father living w the two of you?

[Asker]

i think her dad girlfriend?
i mean i work 2 jobs to pay for everything.
no we broke up but he still in her life

[Opinion Owner]

How long has her dad been w this new girl?

[Asker]

6 months now she 18 and always dresses like a whore

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think she really learned it from his girlfriend. Usually kids are set in their ways by about 13 years old. I think a big part of it was lack of having that father actually in the house. I’m guessing she probably spends the majority of time w you? You have custody? She may have learned it from friends she hangs around w at school.

[Asker]

i have custody but i work 2 jobs so im usually never home. she at home with her 4 sisters and maybe? but until the father started datting this girl all her friends where her age but now there all older

[Opinion Owner]

It could have some influence but I don’t think that’s the real reason why. A lot of times kids, which you probably already know, don’t do as good in single mother homes as they do in single father homes. Honestly were you ever like that w her dad? Like I said it could be because of some of the friends she hangs out w. She’s in high school now so she’s meeting older people.

[Asker]

like what?

[Opinion Owner]

Manipulating your ex in ways to get what you wanted?

[Asker]

i mean yes but she was like 6 when i did that we broke up when she turn 7

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t matter. That behavior you demonstrated most likely stuck in her head somewhere. So I’d say you’re partially to blame for this.

[Asker]

dam i’m over here blaming her dad and his girlfriend when i was the one who failed :/ damm

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not putting this all on you. But kids are impressionable. A boy who witnesses his father beat his mom even at a young age will still remember that. Maybe not consciously, but subconsciously it’s still there. Maybe her father left the two of you just for the hell of it. I could say he’s responsible as well. I’m not sure the situation of how things ended up that way. Whether you left him or he cheated, left you?

[midnightmoon05]

We are the role models to our daughters… having 1,2,3…. Jobs… is a great sign to teach our daughters the importance of work ethnics..
she may be spending time with her dad/sisters/other women… at the end… the mother has the greatest influence …
So if moms teaching started at a young age she will learn to respect herself/body…us girls know how to use manipulations…most of us don’t… few use to their advantages. As a mom…you know very will where/how she gets her behaviors.

[DaddyDiablo]

I don't think you can stop her she's going to find ways of getting what she wants in other ways you'll find unpleasant lol

[DrPepper12]

I'm going to need a little bit more information than that!!

[smurfwrangler]

why correct her? tell her to marry rich and go for the stars!

[Anonymous]

Tell her she can't be out there doing that without a pimp. One of these times it's going to end badly for her.

[hanabunny]

Give her a spanking I don't know

[Asker]

she is 14 i think it’s too late to spank?

[hanabunny]

It depends on how strict you want to be as a parent because I still got spankings up to like 16-17 mostly by my mom. Asian moms don't play lol but she's strict as heck you might not want to be like that

[Asker]

i’m not i’m very fair i say i let them have fun if they do there school work but she been using her body to get money from guys

[hanabunny]

Well it's good to give her freedom but if she's taking advantage of it to make decisions you don't approve of it might be time to crack down, at least take her phone away or stuff like that

[Lynx122]

You need a dad for that probably :)

[Asker]

whatchu mean?

[Lynx122]

A lot of women who grow up without a dad behave this way.

[Asker]

she has a dad

[Lynx122]

Well then tell him to pay more attention and set her straight. :)

[Anonymous]

• As long as they are over 18, let them do it

[elizamichale1]

Why do u think this as wrong huhh

[midnightmoon05]

How? In what ways?

[SixFootSexy]

Single mom problems?

[exitseven]

Don;t most girls do this?

[stratford]

How far does she go?

[Anonymous]

Sounds a bit late now.

[DextroShade]

Tell her she will die alone.

[jahaims]

Too late now. She doesn't respect you or herself.

[Twalli]

Does she have the body for it?

[zombiewoof]

What were you like at her age

[zombiewoof]

you are not going to stop her, but you might teach her to be careful, use protection, and open a door of communication

[zombiewoof]

How did you find out she was doing this

[zombiewoof]

Would you pm me

[Jmmmfi4]

STOP TEACHING HER BY EXAMPLE

[MasterKS]

like how she use her body? sleep around?

[gorydetails]

fake and gay

[Luckycharms12]

Quite common