I think my dad has other kids other than My Sister and I?

[Anonymous]

When I was around 5 my parents were still in a relationship. I remember going to this lady house I didn’t know and she two daughters around my age I don’t remember who was oldest or youngest between us. They were calling my father dad. I never really put much thought into but I never forgot about it. The lady seemed to be older than my parents. I’ve never asked my dad about I’m not sure if I asked my mom. I doubt she wouldn’t have told me. My dad wasn’t the best father all the time and I know it’s some women who would decide to take care of their children without the help of the father. How should I go about asking him? They might have called him dad because he was around so much. If it’s true I really wish I had a relationship with them

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, that's a really weird situation you remember from when you were little. Definitely something strange was going on there. As for asking your dad about it now, I'd tread carefully. Some things to consider:

- Bring it up just you and him alone so no one else can interrupt.

- Start by casually saying you have a vague memory from back then, before straight up accusing him.

- Give him a chance to explain without getting mad or defensive. Hear him out fully.

- Watch his body language/tone - does he seem honest or trying to hide something?

- Don't let this ruin your relationship no matter what he says. You need him still.

- You may never get the full truth from him TBH. Some parents keep secrets!

- See if your mom might know anything too separately.

Just go with an open mind. Finding out the facts could help you feel better, as long as you handle it calm like a grown man. No need to stress tho either way - you got your life ahead man!

[Anonymous]

So?

Why does it matter to you?

[Asker]

Are you retarded