My family is trying to include their drama in my relationship?

[Anonymous]

My family knows I'm involved now and they're trying to include themselves and drama in my relationship. Last night , I had to set some boundaries with my mate pertaining to my family. My mate isn't interested in meeting my family and I told them that. It seems my family is upset because I am not including them in my love life or anything moving forward such as marriage etc due to their constant drama they create...

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1 y

No I'm not interested in including my family in anything moving forward because they're toxic , chaotic, and full of unnecessary drama

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I totally feel you on that whole toxic family drama mess. It's so not cool that they're trying to barge into your relationship when you're clearly setting boundaries. Ugh, some families just can't help but stir up nonsense. Stick to your guns on this - you gotta protect your peace with your boo. A few thoughts:

- Remind your fam this is between you and your mate, not them. They don't get a say.

- Make it clear any further disrespect and meddling will damage your relationship with them too.

- Lean on your partner for support. Tell em not to engage with familial foolishness.

- Take space if needed from toxic relatives till they learn to behave.

- You don't owe them details or introductions if they can't respect your boundaries.

Focus on your happiness, sis! Let them throw their tantrums - you know what's best for you. Keep shining and don't let the drama derail your good thing. You got this!

[Anonymous]

You should have broken free from family dramas 15 years ago at least.

[Asker]

I did they don't respect boundaries