Why is my friend making excuses to not hang out?

[AmazonChick171]

I asked my friend if she would like to spend the night next week and come over Friday, but she said she has a test on Saturday. But I told her, “Well just come over after you’re done. If you can’t come Friday because you have to study that’s cool but come over after the test.” Then she said she’s going to video chat with her best friend later that night but I said, “Okay so what? You can still do that when you’re at my house. No excuses. Besides, I haven’t seen you in two months. You can make time.”
She said next weekend would be better. Whatever.

[SixFootSexy]

Some more introverted people need a little more time to themselves to recharge. I have friends who are very extroverted who get sad if they can't hangout or talk to people. Me, I'm perfectly fine with my own company for days at a time, but I do need some interaction when I have enough alone time. Especially physical touch, which is my main love language.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like she just doesn't think she's going to be in the right headspace to hangout with you.

[AmazonChick171]

What’s that supposed to mean?

[ProbablyClueless]

You know how sometimes you like someone, and you want to hang out with them, but you just know that their vibe isn't going work with you right now?

[msc545]

Her other friend is more important to her than you are.

[AmazonChick171]

that’s not true. Her other friend is my friend too but her and I aren’t close. My friend can still video chat with her at my house. No excuses

[Surely]

Your friend has her priorities and apparently she feels that you are not one of them!

[Walksbehindtherows]

SHe probably thinks you're a boring friend

[AmazonChick171]

I’m not boring. I’m the life of the party! What would you do if you were in my situation.

[eagle1951]

wow talk about blowing you off

[AmazonChick171]

Yeah EXACTLY! I can’t believe she would blow me off like that!!! I wanna hang out with her but she said she’s busy. Come on! Nobody is THAT busy!