Why does my parents want to basically control my life and make decisions for me at the age of 26 what do I do?

[Anonymous]

They are so controlling whenever I travel they always put a curfew on it like they wouldn't want me to overstay wherever I travel to and they would also put guilt on me if I don't come back from where I'm coming from how do I stop this from happening how do I stop feeling guilty about it? why can't I travel on my own terms it can be overbearing

[rosemilk]

because you're allowing them to. they say "come back" you say "no, i'm having fun. i'll let you know when i get back tho. talk to you later"

[Noodle_fan]

Yeah some parents did that , they treat their kids like properties rather than human being

My mother always insist that i have to wear clothes that she wants.

The solution is pretty simple, get out from their place and get ur own.

[Asker]

Im moving away to my husband. But they are putting a time limit on how long i stay with him. They want to come back.

[Noodle_fan]

Just ignore em

[paledreams]

Enjoy the benefits 😁 rather than looking at the negatives 🤭😅

[paledreams]

It makes sense, while you're valid also, there's many out there who dreamed of a stable home aka not a broken home lol 😆

[XHopelessRomanticX]

You may be an adult, but it’s still their house and their rules. How come you’re still living with your parents?

[paledreams]

"they own the property" (or the bank does)'- groovy - who wouldn't love being like that movie failure to launch - comedy - as long as a person works and pays bills - what's the problem 😂😆 family bliss 💖 sure beats strangers the freaks strangers out there

[paledreams]

Scary roommates etc lol

[Anonymous]

If you are living in your own house you can do whatever you want.

[slatyb]

You stop obeying and do what you want.

[In_Trance]

Do you live under their roof and pay rent?

[Asker]

Yes i do

[In_Trance]

Then act like and adult.