Do you want kids? if so, why?

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BullShark · Accepted Answer

Not currently, given my struggling financial position and me not having the ideal body I'd like to have when I finally decide to get married, but one day, yes of course.

I love kids and have always gotten along with them very well, so I feel like I'll definitely make the cool, supportive and friendly dad most kids dream of, who treats their kids more like a friend to them, rather than a small personal servant which you groom into obeying your every whim and command because they're "supposed to".

Another reason why I'd like to have kids is to see how I compare to the way my own father was around me growing up. I will admit that as a kid and in my teen years, me and my dad weren't really all that close. We had an obvious generation barrier between us, and there were times when I would just straight up not wanna talk to him because he's always had an explosive temper and he's prone to misinterpreting things very easily and turning it into a scolding session.

Not to mention all the times he'd beat me up with my old drumsticks across my buttcheeks (thick polished wooden ones, might I add, designed for heavy drums) back when I'd do something he didn't like or if I'd make a mistake like eating someone's leftovers out of the fridge or accidentally breaking something in the house. As a result, I was never a naughty child, I never misbehaved or stepped out of line, and I always had a fear of getting beaten up if I even thought of doing something out of pocket, which I guess groomed me into the man I am now. But I for one, don't think you need to traumatize your children in order for them to be obedient to you, which is what I will test out in my own time

Oncewildtwiceburned · Accepted Answer

At this point its a middle finger to global elite that in my opinion wither hate humanity or are literally conversing with or even channeling evil spirits. Its not some conspiracy anymore. They build statues of religious villains (villains that represent evil and destruction in all 4 major world religions) like shrines at the places they own, fund, or have meetings at (WEC, UN, CERN, random seaside clubs/buildings in Manaco).

I wasted my life so far by living the typical life of a mercenary. Live fast get shot at by people defending their country come home get with the equivalent of a mercenary for a woman (a ho) be forced to hide income so I don’t get screwed over by paying it all to child support.

Its just a sad story. Having a home schooled trad family on a quasi-self sufficient farm is what makes the gates foundation and saber rattling ZOG tremble

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Put it this way- if tubal ligation was allowed without a medical condition, or already having kids, I would have had the procedure in my TEENS.

Nope, I do not want kids- and thankfully I'm almost at the age where I can't have them if I wanted to (yay for small miracles!)

And in before someone says, "You'll change your mind if you meet the right man or as you get older..." Haha, no. I've felt this way since I was a kid if that says anything.

I know this is really hard for some people to believe, but some people do not want kids, and that's okay. Nor do I have any maternal instinct- why would I bring a rugrat in the world knowing I would not be a good mother? If anything, that makes you a poor parent bringing a child in the world if you're not fit to be a parent. There are days I barely want to take care of myself, I can imagine trying to take care of a kid- no thanks, lol. Kudos to you parents out there, but I don't envy you one bit.

luvstoned4him · Accepted Answer

I really wanna experience unconditional love, also I want to carry on my legacy and have someone to leave as heir to the lands and properties. So there is that

coxoabean · Answer

Yes, because they are a blessing if you raise them well

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not now. I mean I'm not dead set against it. But I don't want to be over 60 raising kids. And that puts it at a mathematical impossibility. So I think that ship has sailed.

I don't get these women over 50 still saying they want kids either. I mean I understand the wanting them, so to speak. But I sometimes think a lot of these women don't want to accept it's simply not in the cards for them anymore.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Absolutely.

Legacy and dynasty are very important, the bloodline must continue. My family worked too hard and sacrificed too much for me to not want kids. I know it's an antiquated view but it's the one I hold.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I do. Especially if I meet a woman I think would make a good mother.  I don't really know the reason "why." I think it just always made sense to me.

menina · Answer

I do, I want to have a family. However, I'm not seeing that happening.

Anonymous · Answer

I have 3. I love my kids... but it takes away so much of your life while leaving you constantly mentally drained. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who already has anxiety issues and struggling to make it.

avery58 · Answer

Only in marriage and with someone I truly love. If I don't find that, then no.

BCRanger10 · Answer

My wife and I already have three. We want to have more.

Bilboes · Answer

I already have 3 of them and I don't think I can handle more than that..

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Based on what anon said… these women are regretting.

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, I'd like to have some more. I like having lots of kids.

Unit1 · Answer

Nope. Can't eat enough for just myself. Why introduce a new soul into this wretched society?

Lolita_ · Answer

Yes I want. Because people like me should increase.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Where were you with this question 23 years ago? 😂🤣😂

LiamJHayden · Answer

I cannot make kids. If I want one, I will adopt. At this point in my life, I do not want any.

Jackson2005 · Answer

I mean, I’d be happy either way if I did or didn’t have any. 🤷‍♂️

Ichigo0044 · Answer

Yes, always been my dream to start a family of my own. But it's definitely not the right time rn

Apple1996 · Answer

I already have 5

exitseven · Answer

No , i already have 3 of them.

Awantika03 · Answer

Without kids family can not complete

noohair · Answer

Best thing I ever did.

Maria2002_ · Answer

I don’t I don’t have the patience for them.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

I can't have children

Anonymous · Answer

Two at most.

Hulk30 · Answer

I love em

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NOOOOO

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Nope

VeteranReaper47 · Answer

Never

eagle1951 · Answer

havd had 4

Anonymous · Answer

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