The whole world knows I don’t care about my old friends I knew in daycare so they won’t give me a job till I fix my issue with them what to do?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to be friends with someone I knew since daycare because they got a pedophile to abused me and they don’t understand I don’t wanna be friends with them but the whole world is telling me to forgive but I don’t tbh I want them to leave me alone what do I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that is messed up what happened to you. No wonder you don't want anything to do with those "friends" anymore after that. They betrayed your trust in the worst way letting some creep hurt you.

Forget what everyone else says - you gotta look out for number one and do what's best for your own mental well being. If cutting off contact with those backstabbers is what you need to heal, then that's your call 100%. Don't let nobody pressure you into faking being cool with them just for the sake of a job or whatever.

Your health and safety should come before any job. Maybe try talking to a counselor too about dealing with what happened, that could help you process things better so the past doesn't control your future. But don't ever feel bad about walking away from toxic people, even if you've known them a long time. Real friends don't do that to each other.

Hang in there and stay strong in what's best for you. The right friends and work stuff will come around when you're ready, in your own time. Focus on you for now bro, let me know if you need anything.

[Anonymous]

Well there is forgive for yourself and forgetting...

You won't ever forget! But you can forgive when your ready...

Honestly sames happened to me. Trash person my ex BFF was working some where and she started drama when I tried to work some where.

Like I don't care about her but she won't let it go and keeps causing issues! Her boyfriend raped me as she watched and I begged him to not!

You don't fully forgive and forget!