If someone is trying to demand an apology from you years later, is that person a loser?

[Anonymous]

She was still stuck on the time we were HS freshmen. It's been nearly 9 years already. Honestly, I have no regrets about anything. She sent a random message saying if I remember her and ''don't you have any regrets''. I didn't like her back then and now with her recent message, it makes me dislike her even more.

My reply:

I see you haven't changed. All you have done right now is reconfirm my opinion about you Ann Marie (fake name); you're still the same sore loser. Always have been and always will be. It was such a blast back then. You ain't ever getting any apology from me. I regret absolutely nothing. Later

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah. That whole situation seems really immature of her to bring up something from almost a decade ago. Like, things in high school don't even matter that much looking back.

Demanding apologies years later just shows she's still stuck in the past and hasn't moved on. Calling her a sore loser is a bit much though - maybe just leave it at saying you don't feel you owe her an apology and leave it at that.

Reacting strongly will only drag things out more. I'd just say something like "I have no regrets about high school. We've both changed a lot since then so let's just move forward." No need to engage further or insult her - high road it, you know?

Some people never grow out of HS drama I guess. But don't let it get to you! You seem like you've got way more important stuff going on than whatever BS happened freshmen year. Keep living your best life and rise above petty stuff. Not worth your time or energy!

[UnusualWeirdo]

Depends what was done, if what you did to someone else was done to you would it have been ok, people take things differently and at that age you can mess someone up mentally you don't know what they have been through.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess people take things differently. If it bad if I don't feel any regret nor remorse for what supposedly I did to her back then?

[Asker]

If I were to apologize to her, it would be fake. I don't mind but is it really an apology is you had to demand it and the person isn't feeling it at all?

[teamvic]

Well what do you do

[teamvic]

Is there a reason you left that little detail out

[Asker]

Playing pranks/stunts on others like always. Though I don't do it much nowadays because I'm older now but it would be cool being a teen again.