Dear parents, how’d you feel if you 31yo son is still unable to earn a living and struggling in his career?

[Anonymous]

Would you feel bad for him or yourself…would you think that hez useless or something

[Anonymous]

I think most parents would be concerned about how it's affecting them mentally. Most parents who care about thier kids only want 1. For thier children to be happy. And 2. Be able to stand on thier own 2 feet at some point. As they know they won't always be around to pick them up.

[In_Trance]

the 31 yo son is probably a pylon who isn't taking the initiative to go out and make something of himself.

[Anonymous]

It would be sad but hardly anything a parent can do about it. At 31 he should have his life well and truly together.

[zombiewoof]

There are a ton of jobs out there, he can work somewhere while he looks for a place in his field

[seeyounexttuesday]

Is he disabled?

[Asker]

Not disabled… but you can say not smart enough to…

[seeyounexttuesday]

Smart enough to what? Get a job as a school custodian? Drive a school bus?

[Asker]

To get a job in his field

[seeyounexttuesday]

So he can get a job.