So your son is a slaving wagecuck because you are not financially able to give him a better life. Are you disappointed at your son?

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He's got no girlfriend because women don't like wage slaves, who have good personalities and are no lazy leeching ass.
He would have studied business administration but no one can fund his tuition fee.
He got little to no money for leisure because he eats it all away as he gets paid around minimum wage. He also looks like he needs some pricey medical services. He ain't even got a drivers license at 25 years. And before you start thinking "he probably wasted his money on Fortnite skins, OnlyFans, booze, weed and gambling", no he has not!
That also means no partying or socializing since he's always busy hustling and slaving away for his dead end career.
He is depressed and thinks to himself, that he wishes he was aborted. He is getting older and is still wagecucking away his life either at dead end jobs requiring no higher education or at trade. He did not join the military because he does not believe in sacrificing his life for someone else's problem (war), although with his depression growing periodically he might consider joining the front lines and get shot.

Disappointed or not?

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

This would NEVER be my son. My son would know the art of grifting, at an early age. Gotta teach them early... And often!

As for any hypothetical real world adults this might pertain to... I'd advise that man to get a basic Community College degree and/or go to a trade school. I hear HVAC repair guys make like $70K a year or something. Or he could be a trucker. Get paid like $90K to sit on your ass all day listen to The Joe Rogan Experience and drive boxes of toilet paper to Nevada. Or do what I did and move to another country where you get to live rent free and get paid $36-40K to teach English to Korean or Pilipino 3 to 5 hours a day.

There's lots of opportunities out there that don't involve McDonalds or OnlyFans. But being depressed makes it harder to find them. I'm someone who in 2019 was only making $12 an hour at a sh*tty concierge job so I've done the wagecuck sh*t for most my adult life. Though yeah, certain places in America make it hopeless, like Filthadelphia where I'm from. Sometimes you've just got to pack your sh*t and move elsewhere.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. The only thing I wouldn't like about that is him being depressed. Because my life started the same way. Actually my life really didn't started gaining momentum till my very early 30's. Now I have a net worth in the high 6 figures and am financially better off than most my peers who've made significantly more than me. I credit those early lean years for making humble and driven. Only in past couple years have I learned to relax a little. Because life is a constant mountain climb sometimes you don't even realize it when you've actually already reached the summit

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

I would not be disappointed. In real life, even if I was not financially stable, I would've somehow made sure that my son attended college and received quality education. I would be happy that my son was not a lazy drunk and tried to make something of himself. You should take responsibility too. Do not blame everything on your mother/father. You are 25, you can STILL learn a trade or try to save up for college. I've seen 40 year old's going to college, trying to major in something profitable.. and there is always student loans? What about scholarships? You knew all too well that your parents were not financially secure enough to send you to college. I do not know your family dynamics or what you've been through, but it isn't too late now. Also, I'm sure your parents are worried about your mental health. You are working hard, but you should also learn to take some responsibility.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't be disappointed at him. I would be worried and proud of him at the same time. I would be worried because he's not happy with his life and he's depressed. At the same time I would be proud of him because he's hardworking and he doesn't spend his money on things that doesn't matter.

humanearth · Answer

We all chose our life path, blaming others don't fix your fucked up choices

I couldn't afford to put kids in college, but they got jobs and worked their ass off and paid their way though college on their own

So don't give me that pitty me bullshit excuses

If there's a will to do it, you can do it

exitseven · Answer

I made sure my kids all went to good colleges and majored in something that would be marketable. They all graduated in 4 years with no debt and all have good jobs.
I struggled to pay tuition and had to drop out of school twice because I ran out of money. It took me over ten years to graduate.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

I'd be more disappointed If I raised a welfare king or something like that... I don't look down on people with shitty jobs because someone's got to do it... besides a shit job can be great motivation... at some point you either accept your fate or realize this shits not for you and figure out a better way

Dinklex3 · Answer

If it was my fault, i don't see how I could be disappointed in him.
In reality though i would've been able to send him college, he would've had great medical care, and we would've went on trips at least once a year.

slatyb · Answer

Give him Better life? He's an adult, it's his responsibility, not mine. His refusal to take responsibility is probably a large part of his inability to attract a partner.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

People who can't afford to have kids should use birth control

LazerBean · Answer

I'd only be disappointed that he was so weakminded as to think this way.

BeMuse · Answer

Student loans or G. I. Bill. No one needs to pay your way. Figure it out.

IsoUser · Answer

Though by the grace of God I am not in that situation with 2 twin daughters and a son. I wouldn't be ashamed of him or twin daughters for wanting their own money.

Wonderlove · Answer

Poor guy... try putting your feelers out there for a better paying, salary job. Thst should lighten your load and give you more free time to peruse a personal life. But still proud!

Juxtapose · Answer

I wouldn't be beaming with pride but it wouldn't be something I would blame him for.

Staximus · Answer

I would tell him "if you're not satisfied with your life, do something to make it better"

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I would feel I had failed as a parent. Of course I wouldn't tell him that.

GoggleDumb · Answer

I would try to support him if I could, and I would be proud to see him actually try in life.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

The divorced ex-wife is to blame :D

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Who is this targeted for?

malwins · Answer

LOL shouldn't adults pay their own way

Ruenella_ · Answer

Sounds like me.

RobEurope · Answer

I invest on stocks.

So your son is a slaving wagecuck because you are not financially able to give him a better life. Are you disappointed at your son?

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