When me and my mum have a disagreement she is constantly threatening me?

[Anonymous]

I recently moved back into my parents house to save money. I made the biggest mistake. They said I would never be able to save money renting.

Everytime we have a disagreement she threatens me and says I should leave. I said I will leave. Yes I will gladly find myself a place to live.

Yes they are my parents but how can I respect someone when they treat me like shit. I have made the biggest mistake. I failed my driving test twice. I had a big argument. I have booked my self a third test. In a different area, in my local area Mum said you’re wasting your time. I guarantee you will not pass. I said what an awful thing to say. I need to try to pass.

We got into a bad argument after. She said I am bully and I am forcing her to change her opinion. I said I am not forcing anyone to change their opinion. But it is not right her putting me down. She also said your relationship will end in divorce. I said no it will not, the only person I have problems with you is yourself.

I bought my parents a lavish holiday for their 30th wedding anniversary.

Next year I booked a family holiday for myself, my siblings, my parents. I have cancelled because I don’t deserve to be treated like shit 💩

I don’t want to argue with them because they are my parents. But at the same time respect is both ways. I don’t deserve this and I never want to feel like this again

I am sick and tired of threats it is not good for my mental health.

[Anonymous]

Trying to save?

I'd recommend knocking the driving on the head unless it'll enable significant earnings growth and holidays are the same but you've cancelled that one so good

[Asker]

Thank you, my job is in a remote area. I have to ask my dad to give me a lift and I am feed up.

[Opinion Owner]

Or yeah if you live in the sticks

[Asker]

I would like to buy a house, but I don’t appreciate the disrespect.

[Opinion Owner]

A house in this economy, the elites are trying to steal them off people

[MasterKS]

some parents are weird, be confident and live for yourself rather than wasting your time there with the shit.

[MasterKS]

@asker i had some bad experiences too.

[Asker]

Thanks so much, I am glad I am not the only one.

I cannot sit there and tolerate my mum insulting me. Respect is both ways treat people how you want to be treated.

She has got her wish and I have found somewhere to live.

[MasterKS]

@asker deal in better way, tit for tat and leave!! i suggest.

[slatyb]

Move back out. Find a roommate if you have to.

[Asker]

Thanks it is to much