How do you hide a relationship with your boy-friend from your parents?

[birdie2909]

[Unit1]

Here are your tips:

• Seal your mouth about your boyfriend and relationships. If asked, just lie. If tortured or interrogated, you're trapped with toxic parents. A terrible position to be in
• Maintain a concealed and discrete contact line with your boyfriend. Don't put his name in yours contacts like "Lee my boyfriend ❤"
• Keep low and don't invite situations, that can expose your relationship with your boyfriend
• and finally, once you grow up and make your own money and start living on your own terms such as renting a student apartment or a dormitory, you can be more freer with your relationship
• However remember, that people talk and gossip. If your parents catch wind of it, you're pretty much in hot water

Good luck!

[birdie2909]

Thank you so much. Tips taken.

[Unit1]

One can take tips. It's something else to take action.
I've given tips and they were disregarded. That person ended up the risk unfolding to him (he was kicked out by his parents). I haven't heard any update from him since.
Don't be like him. He deserved it.

[HighValue]

You shouldn't hide it from your parents. Both parents should know. And you should avoid sex until you finish high school regardless of your partner's age.

[birdie2909]

Well it's not like I see him like that, he is in MD

[itsannalee]

You are too young for that. I wouldn’t like my daughter to have relationships in your age.

[birdie2909]

I'm fourteen it's nothing bad. Is it?

[itsannalee]

For me yeah, it’s too early for relationships. Having male friends Is oaky, but boyfriend is not. Have to wait until 17.

[birdie2909]

Okay. Thanks for the advice. Is it okay if I wait until he breaks up with me or what should I do?

[itsannalee]

Is okay, just consider as friend like hang out together, go to cinemas or something like that. You are still young. Don’t do something over the line before your body is ready for it, don’t let him touches you down there or your tits, don’t do any sexual activity yet.

[birdie2909]

How old is your daughter?

[itsannalee]

She is 9

[birdie2909]

What's her name, if you don't mind me asking?

[itsannalee]

Her name is Sienna

[birdie2909]

That's a cute name. lol

[birdie2909]

itsannalee To answer your question. YES IT IS!!

[itsannalee]

What question?

[birdie2909]

NVM...

[Cutegirl06]

Why do you need/want to hide it from them for? Is he much older than you are?

[birdie2909]

No and yes...

He is 17 and I'm fourteen.

[Cutegirl06]

I don't think I'd like my 14 year old daughter dating a 17 year old boy. How did you meet him? He's almost considered an adult. Does he really care about you and not just interested in sex? I know not all guys are like this. I think that the fact that you have to hide your relationship with him that you yourself feel something isn't right. I just want you to be careful.

[birdie2909]

Yeah, he has told me he wanted to do that but i told him no. And i met him at a school in MD and he is like that so i will make sure to be very careful thanks for the advice.

[Cutegirl06]

You're welcome 😊 I feel that I have to say this. He's going to want sex at some point and if he doesn't get it from you when he turns 18 he will get it from someone else unless he's willing to wait until you turn 18 which is 4 years and if he has sex with you at 18 your a minor and that's rape! I just have a hard time believing this guy will wait until you're 18. Not trying to be a downer just giving
you the possible reality of the situation. If you were my younger sister I'd say the same thing.

[birdie2909]

Thank You, so much for the support.

[Cutegirl06]

You're welcome 😊 Anytime 😊

[jamesgoldman]

Don't bring them home
Don't talk about them to anyone who could drop you in it like siblings

My parents still don't know about my year of dating at that was a decade ago

[birdie2909]

OMG! Did you tell anybody?

[jamesgoldman]

Other than here, only a few close friends and eventually my brother but that was 4 years ago so 6 years after the fact as well as the friends and associates who know about it at the time

[birdie2909]

But what about my sister? I'm in eighth she is in seventh?

[jamesgoldman]

Siblings aren't generally loyal to each other as teenagers, I only told him when someone put my foot in it so I had to otherwise I wouldn't have

[birdie2909]

Ohhhhhh, Yeah makes sense.

[Nikki1989]

It was too easy in my day. My parents never came into my room.

[birdie2909]

My parents always come into my room tho

[Nikki1989]

That is a problem.

[Iron_Man]

You can’t they will find out you can’t hide something like that plus you’re too young to date you’re gonna get yourself in trouble

[birdie2909]

WDYM? I'm fourteen it's not like i'm going to have sex with him.

[Iron_Man]

Teenagers like to brainwash
young women and how do you know when you start getting strong feelings that you can’t resist

[birdie2909]

I know that I can resist. because my boyfriend would never do anything like that to me.

[Iron_Man]

How long has he been your boyfriend?

[birdie2909]

Four months. Y?

[Iron_Man]

If you’re kissing and holding each other, things can happen

[birdie2909]

He wouldn't do that. that I know of

[Danny_dan92]

You’re definitely making the right decisions in life

[birdie2909]

tysm

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Went right over your head

[birdie2909]

wdym?

[Danny_dan92]

Nothing kid. Just do yourself a favor and take birth control. For your own good.

[birdie2909]

why?

[Danny_dan92]

Jesus Christ. Nothing. Good luck

[birdie2909]

No. Please tell me

[BarryLiverstone]

He was being sarcastic. When he said : “You’re definitely making the right decisions in life” he meant the opposite.

[birdie2909]

Thanks. I did not get it at first but now I get it thank u.

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome

[birdie2909]

WRUD?

[birdie2909]

How is everyone doing?

[Danny_dan92]

Kid. Go do your homework.

[birdie2909]

For one I don't have any and u r not my daddy so quit telling me what the Fuck to do.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah well your “daddy” is failing at doing his job. Clearly.

[birdie2909]

That's hurtful For one bc I ain't got one because he died when I was two months old. So Thanks

[Danny_dan92]

I did not know that, I apologize.

Well in any case, your mom is slipping up.

[birdie2909]

I'm in Foster Care so therefore I don't have one of those either..

[Danny_dan92]

Fuck sake. Ok kid, I’m not gonna say this again. Just take care of yourself yeah? Really think things through.

You do not want to learn your life lessons the hard way… because more often than not you cannot undo the decisions you made.

[birdie2909]

Yeah, it's okay, I've only been in Foster Care since I was two months old. my mom turned me in saying that she couldn't deal with me anymore.

[Danny_dan92]

Actually, why are you saying you don’t have a dad yet are asking how you can hide your relationship from your parents?

[birdie2909]

Foster Parents. They don't like boys because they r both girls!!!

[Danny_dan92]

Hold tf up.

You were adopted by two lesbian women and you’re telling me they don’t want you to be with a boy?

[birdie2909]

YES, that is exactly what I'm telling you, that's what I've been trying to tell u the whole time.

[Danny_dan92]

I see. Have they ever molested you?

In any case. They are trying to influence you and are hoping you too become a lesbian. This is morally fucked up. You are either born one or you’re not.

Look, I’m not a dad but I’m aware of the bs that’s been going on in society. That being said, you date this boy. You don’t keep anything of his in the house. Once you turn 18 you get tf out of there. Got it?

[birdie2909]

YES, Sir. Will do, actually they just walked in so I have to go. bye talk later.

[birdie2909]

Thanks for the advice.

[birdie2909]

Not really molested me.

[Danny_dan92]

Have they done anything inappropriate with you?

[Danny_dan92]

Touch you in ways that are sexual or suggestive?

[birdie2909]

wdym?

[birdie2909]

NO and (yes)

[Danny_dan92]

No and yes. Not specific

[birdie2909]

Message me privately please!!

[12karen]

I didn't, I think my parents knew but didn't ask about them.

But my last boyfriend, I told my mom about, and she just said okay

[BarryLiverstone]

I was able to hide my first relationship because I was away at college.

[birdie2909]

OHHH. Well i'm definitely not in college yet. lol

[BarryLiverstone]

But you will want to go and study there in the future. It was better to be away so my parents didn’t ask me about her everyday yk

[birdie2909]

Yeah, IK my parents don't know about my boyfriend now.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like so far you have hid it from them

[birdie2909]

I'm honestly jst scared that my Foster Care parents won't like him.

[birdie2909]

Yeah, I guess so far

[birdie2909]

FOR ONE: she's using a school computer talking to people she has no clue who they are saying I love you to guys multiple of them after talking a day. she's NOT in foster Care and lives a very good life.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like she’s about to learn some life lessons. Good luck

[Graptemys79]

Why do you want to hide it?

[birdie2909]

Bc i'm in FC and they don't really like boys

[Graptemys79]

What is FC?

[birdie2909]

Foster Care

[Graptemys79]

Oh, I see. Who doesn't like boys, your foster parents?

[birdie2909]

Yea, Their both girls

[Graptemys79]

Your foster parents are women?

[birdie2909]

Yes, Why? They r really good parents but they don't want us.

[birdie2909]

I'm sorry you prob can't see my private mes.

[Graptemys79]

I saw it.

[birdie2909]

Okay

[Graptemys79]

I responded.

[birdie2909]

Did u see the other three?

[birdie2909]

You still there?

[jahaims]

You don't. You are a child don't date

[Anonymous]

You don’t.

[birdie2909]

Why though?

[Opinion Owner]

Because it causes too much stress.

[birdie2909]

True point