Why does my younger sister always have to insult me, put me down and exclude me from family stuff?

[KezHarris]

[RandomUser1000]

Sounds like a difficult situation :(

Maybe you have to stand up to her.
Stop taking her BS.

I don't know the details of your situation.

But maybe she walks all over you because she feel like she can without much resistance.
If the more trouble she causes, the more trouble she gets, then maybe it's no longer fun for her to be like that.

But yeah it it does sound like a though situation.
Having a bully is never fun.
But if you'd had to choose, having a bully that you are not related to and someone you don't care about. Then it's at least a bit easier to avoid them.

As long as we don't talk about serious physical violence that could give you serious physical damage.
Then being bullied by someone you care about hurts more.

[mstbooblover]

General jealousy? Revenge for something you represent in her eyes? Maybe she feels as if she got not enough attention from your parents because of you getting it?

Maybe there's a still unsolved argument between you both as often happens with sisters and brothers?

[sage2021]

I have been listening to a video just now as a matter of fact and the advice Denzel Washington said to do when that happens is to just be silent and stare at the end to be very calm.
That will show them your worth and that's something that they cannot take away from you!

[HollyK21]

Kez have you ever had a conversation with your sister about how you feel? Do you think she would be receptive? Obviously we can’t tell you “why”, she has her own personal reason and she may even feel like you misconstrue her behavior even if you aren’t.

[KezHarris]

She gave me a black eye yesterday and smashed my wine glass. I told her how it makes me feel and I remained calm and she attacked me.

[HollyK21]

Well you know what they say, protect your peace. If she’s physically abusive and a source of trauma then let her go. Nobody else in your family has to agree, doesn’t matter what they think.

[Wiredone]

Maybe because you don't stand up for yourself so you're letting her do it

[KezHarris]

Nah just tried ignoring her and that seems to be working… I did stand up for myself but she seemed to be enjoying anything that comes out my mouth, so straight up ignoring her is the only thing that works

[Wiredone]

If it works, go all in

[CaptainSmartass]

Because she's a real jerk. Just tell her what you think, but in a respectable way.

Simples...

[Cutegirl06]

Probably jealo8

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably because she's a bitch?

[Jennz6]

Little sisters are so naughty

[LEGENDARY4200]

Possibly jealous, wants all the attention

[Jerre]

She is probably jealous of your sex life

[KezHarris]

She doesn’t know about that! 🤦🏼‍♀️😂😂😂