Is it still wrong thinking my brother's fiancee is very attractive?

[Anonymous]

Obviously I'll never hit on her. I just can't help what I see; a very attractive woman. Perhaps the most attractive one I've ever seen. She happens to have symmetrical, unique features, is a natural redhead, bluish-gray eyes and is a good pianist, lovely songs and melodies. On personality, she's liked by my family too. She never asked my brother for expensive things and is humble indeed. My brother selected great.

I have my limits though. If he's my brother or friend, I don't go after the girl. I'm currently dating others for the moment but nothing serious yet. Yet, I feel some guilt in even thinking she's attractive. Is this still wrong? It's what my eyes see.

[TrueConfection]

Time to start thinking of her as your sister.

[Asker]

That's what I do on social gathering. I don't pay attention to her in a romantic way. It would be great finding a woman similar to her.

[TrueConfection]

I think it’s wonderful that you admire her. I hope you find someone with similar qualities

[Anonymous]

You can jerk off to her all you want and sometimes that's enough.

[Asker]

yeah that'll do it.

[jshm2]

Nothing wrong with "thinking," but you should be doing better.

[Asker]

I would be great finding a woman just as good as her.

[HungTexan]

Thinking and doing are two different things.

[Asker]

True. We can't help who we find attractive.

[In_Trance]

ask your brother

[Asker]

It's ok. I'll just focus on finding someone worthy. It would be great finding a woman similar to her though.