I never I said I liked his brother, being attracted to and liking someone are tow different things.
And still you're not attracted to the one you should be...
I feel sorry for whoever is dating you, it sounds like you'd break up with them for the first person you find to be more physically attractive. There's more than physical, you know.
That's sounds like you, not me. It's not me here who says she doesn't find her boyfriend attractive but someone else - it's you. And you can't realize that this will hurt him and that this is not okay also if you still ask here that question.
You just want to see answers like "yes it's okay" so you can have how to defend yourself if your boyfriend finds out... You can say then "they say it's normal" but imagine how you would feel if he says you're not attractive and he finds some other girl more attractive. Just think.
I wouldn't care, because he's with me at the end of the day.
Then do what's keeping him, not what can chase him away
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Yeah, I actually met his brother first but I fell in love with my boyfriend.
well, i'm happy for you and your boyfriend, i dunno much about him but he's a lucky guy to find a rare woman like you, that quality is rare af lol
I was already considering avoiding him at the pool, I think it wouldn't be a good idea to be around him with his shirt off
How much does he weigh and how tall is he? The next time you are ooggling him, please ask him about his training routine. I'm always looking for good ways to build more muscle.I take it your boyfriend doesn't train and is skinny?
@Truthatanycost not sure about his weight, he's around 6 feet tall. My boyfriend is skinny, yes.
How tall is your bf? At 6ft, it's very difficult to look muscular. You don't know his weight? ok well think back to the dream you had where you were together, how much would you say it felt like he weighed?
I think I'd feel fine with it, I'm the one he's with
Well u think in a way most don't then lol if he ever found out he would feel like shit that simple
I mean I find his brother more physically attractive but, I connect and relate more with my boyfriend
The Best thing is to avoid his brother i think
Wouldn't bother me
I never believed that.
Being in a room alone with someone attractive does not mean sex all the time. Because dude if I had sex everytime I got in a room with someone I found attractive I would have lost count.
did I say it means sex every time.
and you are guy she's woman let's be honest it's way different.
How is that so different? Do you think everyone jump on eachother at first chance? Nothing is gonna happen if there is no connection.
haha you are niave and you put words in people's mouths I never said any of the things you insinuated. I meant don't be in room alone because if brother is interested to than she could fall into temptation. let's be honest for lots of guys there has to be no connection just opportunity if you think that statement is untrue you are lying to your self just because you don't think that way doesn't mean lots of other guys don't I have lots of girls as friends they tell me stories
I love his personality
The fuck is wrong with finding another guy attractive? As long as she doesn’t try anything, she’s good. Fuck is wrong with you males these days?
@Smoothiekisses137 that's a loaded question..
She shouldn't find another guys attractive if she's already in a relationship... it shows that she isn't satisfied with her boyfriend looks so she should just break up and save him the heartbreak later on
@Joker8 as long as she doesn't act on it.. it's fine. Everyone has crushes.. and are attracted to someone other then their SO. We are human. You can look.. but don't touch.
EXACTLY ^^ You can appreciate another person’s beauty as long as you’re loyal to the one you’re with. It’s fairly simple to understand.
@Smoothiekisses137 @crazy_one01 if he isn't the most attractive guy in her eyes then why did she date him in the first place?
Cause looks aren’t everything. It’s human nature to find other people attractive and there’s nothing wrong with it. Get over it.
@Smoothiekisses137 I don't know you about you but when you love someone and commit to a relationship you should see them as the most beautiful person alive... looking at other guys is just crazy but checking out his brothers body is pure fucking disgusting... if I was her boyfriend and found out about this... I would get seriously mad
Well thank God you’re not her boyfriend cause some people... actually most people understand that it’s totally normal and it’s part of human nature to find other people attractive. Like imagine thinking there is only ONE attractive person in this whole world while everyone else is okay- or ugly... can’t relate.
@Joker8 she's not screwing him. She hasn't been unfaithful. She simply appreciates the attractiveness of someone else. She hasn't dug her grave. As I said.. we are all human.. it's normal to admire someone else. Guys do it all the time.. whether it's a celebrity or some hot chick at the gym/grocery store etc.
@Smoothiekisses137 well I did this and I believed my girlfriend is the only beautiful girl in this world... it's not that hard if your really in love...@crazy_one01 our brains are equipped with abilities to recognize that something is fucked up and disgusting so we shouldn't even think about... like having sex with your brother... it's fucking disgusting and no one would like to imagine it... same here but on a different scale... she should recognize that it's fucked up stop thinking about it
You’re the first and only person I’ve seen that has this kind of mindset. But hey whatever dude.
@Smoothiekisses137 yup I know I'm weird compared to guys these days but I respect your point of view
Hey just ask! I have the freedom to tell you what you what I think.
Well, if that makes me one then so be it.
@therapisttiana Yeah that's right she is a PUTA ! Lol
What kind of useless childish bullying is that. This is not a tribune for such behavior.