Is it bad that I find my boyfriend's brother to be more physically attractive?

[Anonymous]

I still love my boyfriend and wouldn't try anything with his brother, I just find him to be the more physically attractive one.

[Anonymous]

If i was inyour bfs position then i would pretty shitty.
I know therevwill be other people more attractive thsn me, but i would hate it if my own girlfriend was more attracted to guys in my surrondings, bd it friends or family.

So no matter how much she would love me and love my personality, even iv she was somewhat attracted to me, i would break up with her and simply ask hrr to rather date xxx to whom she is more attracted to.

Then i can find a girl who is as attracted to me physically as i am tho her.
My current girlfriend might not be the most attracted girl for othr people but for me she is the number 1 in my eyes and i dont want to be anything less than numbr 1 in her eyes.
If i wouldn't i would throw all her love for me away because love alone without extreme attraction to your mate is completly worthless!

[Anonymous]

As long as you don't do anything with the brother and not make your current SO feel bad about not being as pretty as his brother, you are okay and it's not a bad thing, per se.

Finding your boyfriend's brother physically more appealing is the same as finding Brad Pitt to be more physically appealing than your SO.

No one will fault you for saying that Brad Pitt is much more attractive than your SO but the reason why finding your boyfriend's brother more attractive is sort of taboo and could be considered a "bad thing" is because the possibility and chances of something happening are much higher than something happening between you and say Brad Pitt.

[Shiraa]

What's up with all these reactions. The asker never said she wanted to break up with her boyfriend and move on to his brother or anything. It is normal to find people other than your boyfriend attractive and it is possible to think that his brother is better looking. You have eyes.

[potatoismee]

It's normal. I mean your boyfriend doesn't necessarily have to be the most beautiful creature on the planet but as long as you're attracted to him and you love him that's what matters. Surely there will always be better looking people but who cares

[QuteQueen]

That shouldn't even matter. Focus on your man. There's always someone more attractive than the next person

[PinkChampagne]

If you like the brother while you are dating your boyfriend, yeah it's bad.. it's like emotional cheating

[Asker]

I never I said I liked his brother, being attracted to and liking someone are tow different things.

[PinkChampagne]

And still you're not attracted to the one you should be...

[Asker]

I feel sorry for whoever is dating you, it sounds like you'd break up with them for the first person you find to be more physically attractive. There's more than physical, you know.

[PinkChampagne]

That's sounds like you, not me. It's not me here who says she doesn't find her boyfriend attractive but someone else - it's you. And you can't realize that this will hurt him and that this is not okay also if you still ask here that question.

[PinkChampagne]

You just want to see answers like "yes it's okay" so you can have how to defend yourself if your boyfriend finds out... You can say then "they say it's normal" but imagine how you would feel if he says you're not attractive and he finds some other girl more attractive. Just think.

[Asker]

I wouldn't care, because he's with me at the end of the day.

[PinkChampagne]

Then do what's keeping him, not what can chase him away

[Sharon94]

It is not bad to feel that way, as long as you don't act on it

[Finchie40]

Nothing wrong with it but never cross that line of trying to hook up with him

[Nishonen]

well you can't help what you find attractive, but hey, shows that you're not one to go for looks

[Asker]

Yeah, I actually met his brother first but I fell in love with my boyfriend.

[Nishonen]

well, i'm happy for you and your boyfriend, i dunno much about him but he's a lucky guy to find a rare woman like you, that quality is rare af lol

[pathunknown]

Attraction is a difficult thing. It is fine that you think your boyfriend's brother is more physically attractive. Just always keep in mind what you would do to your boyfriend mentally, should anything happen. Understanding and accepting the consequences is sometimes the best way to fight our own nature.

[Anonymous]

Just avoid his brother as much as possible. No matter how loyal you are, it's never a good idea to unnecessarily be near temptation.

[Asker]

I was already considering avoiding him at the pool, I think it wouldn't be a good idea to be around him with his shirt off

[Truthatanycost]

How much does he weigh and how tall is he? The next time you are ooggling him, please ask him about his training routine. I'm always looking for good ways to build more muscle.

I take it your boyfriend doesn't train and is skinny?

[Asker]

@Truthatanycost not sure about his weight, he's around 6 feet tall. My boyfriend is skinny, yes.

[Truthatanycost]

How tall is your bf? At 6ft, it's very difficult to look muscular. You don't know his weight? ok well think back to the dream you had where you were together, how much would you say it felt like he weighed?

[ryryryan]

If you fucked him would it be bad? Would the brother be ok with with? Would u leave him for his brother (awkward?). If it's just a physical attraction that's normal but is it something u want to peruse? That sounds u viable, unless they are extraordinarily open minded and what u want in the end

[Paris13]

You have a Normal Crush on his Bro. And as you Know... Blood will always Be Thicker than Water.
Keep your Distance and always Opinions to yourself, Along with your Hands. xx

[CaffeinatedCactus]

It think it's normal. I thought my boyfriend was the least attractive of his other 2 brothers but personality-wise I did fit better with him. You can't help who you find physically attractive!

[Chthou95]

I never believed that.

[AbagailGun]

It's not bad at all as long as you don't have a affair with him

[throwsomecheeseonit]

depends on scenario if you like his personality too than you have to maybe question your relationship but regardless I wouldn't be ina room alone with him you can't mess with fire and not be burned

[JP_Man]

Being in a room alone with someone attractive does not mean sex all the time. Because dude if I had sex everytime I got in a room with someone I found attractive I would have lost count.

[throwsomecheeseonit]

did I say it means sex every time.

[throwsomecheeseonit]

and you are guy she's woman let's be honest it's way different.

[JP_Man]

How is that so different? Do you think everyone jump on eachother at first chance? Nothing is gonna happen if there is no connection.

[throwsomecheeseonit]

haha you are niave and you put words in people's mouths I never said any of the things you insinuated. I meant don't be in room alone because if brother is interested to than she could fall into temptation. let's be honest for lots of guys there has to be no connection just opportunity if you think that statement is untrue you are lying to your self just because you don't think that way doesn't mean lots of other guys don't I have lots of girls as friends they tell me stories

[boggboss]

Yes it is if your guy thought your mum was more physically attractive how would u feel

[Asker]

I think I'd feel fine with it, I'm the one he's with

[boggboss]

Well u think in a way most don't then lol if he ever found out he would feel like shit that simple

[Anon-ymous1]

If you wouldn't try anything then why does it matter

[MaddyMax]

No, as long as you don't like his personality more or try anything it's fine.

[MMM369]

Looks don’t matter it’s all about personality... his looks would probably be nice for a few months but that’s it not for years if that makes sense

[name_is_eric]

Attraction is normal.
Your boyfriend probably feels the same about your sister, or mother. It happens.

[isikinho]

You can not control Who you find more attractive. But if you don't find your Boyfriend attractive anymore or someone else more attractive than him you should think about whether you love him still. And please DONT TELL HIM!! It would break his heard.

[Asker]

I mean I find his brother more physically attractive but, I connect and relate more with my boyfriend

[isikinho]

The Best thing is to avoid his brother i think

[Nerdvana]

Well, how would you feel if your boyfriend found your sister or another family member more physically attractive then you?

[Asker]

Wouldn't bother me

[Anonymous]

Do you love your boyfriends personality though? Looks fade anyways.

[Asker]

I love his personality

[winterfox10]

Meh... it happens... just make sure that you don't get drunk one night and wrap your legs around the wrong brother.

[NCricket42]

Na. As long as you don't act on it. You can't help that kind of thing.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

It's only bad if there's temptation to go behind the guy's back.

[Mevrickk]

It's normal that girl's boyfriend are less attractive then other who is near then him. its it not wrong. but you bave to control your emotions and shouldn't go close to your bf's brother else you're cheating.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

bad no sad yes
This makes me feel bad because I have a brother who is very attractive

[herguy]

You can't help what you see - as long as you don't want him instead, then there's no issue.

[Smoothiekisses137]

Nah there’s nothing wrong with it. As long as you don’t act on it, it’s fine.

[dogfish]

totally normal lol. I wouldn't be surprised if my girlfriend and exes think my brother looks better than me

[Anonymous]

Where there is smoke there's fire, but at least you will keep it in the family.

[your_ego]

Ha..

[Anonymous]

It's perfectly normal. Let him know and he will arrange something with the both of them.

[lukeylukey]

I don't think that's really acceptable not to judge but if you're not attracted to him as much as his brother then there's clearly and element missing.

[Gothdaddy]

I mean you're always gonna find someone more physically attractive than your current mate. Same way around he's gonna see girls who look netter than you.

[Chthou95]

Break up with him. The more you're around the brother, the more intense the attractiom might get. Break up with him.

[bakedgoods]

I find a liar if his brother made a move knowing that no one would know... What would you do? Go ahead lie to your self.

[Lilianușka]

I think it's normal, till you not falling in love with him.

[Djiceman40]

It's fine just have to decide who's personality you like the best and act on that if it's the brother explain why when you break up

[Anonymous]

So long as you don't pursue, you're not doing anything particularly immoral. It's window shopping for your eyes, I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Stop being a hoe and break up with your boyfriend. Jesus

What is wrong with you females these days

[Smoothiekisses137]

The fuck is wrong with finding another guy attractive? As long as she doesn’t try anything, she’s good. Fuck is wrong with you males these days?

[crazy_one01]

@Smoothiekisses137 that's a loaded question..

[Joker8]

She shouldn't find another guys attractive if she's already in a relationship... it shows that she isn't satisfied with her boyfriend looks so she should just break up and save him the heartbreak later on

[crazy_one01]

@Joker8 as long as she doesn't act on it.. it's fine. Everyone has crushes.. and are attracted to someone other then their SO. We are human. You can look.. but don't touch.

[Smoothiekisses137]

EXACTLY ^^ You can appreciate another person’s beauty as long as you’re loyal to the one you’re with. It’s fairly simple to understand.

[Joker8]

@Smoothiekisses137 @crazy_one01 if he isn't the most attractive guy in her eyes then why did she date him in the first place?

[Smoothiekisses137]

Cause looks aren’t everything. It’s human nature to find other people attractive and there’s nothing wrong with it. Get over it.

[Joker8]

@Smoothiekisses137 I don't know you about you but when you love someone and commit to a relationship you should see them as the most beautiful person alive... looking at other guys is just crazy but checking out his brothers body is pure fucking disgusting... if I was her boyfriend and found out about this... I would get seriously mad

[Smoothiekisses137]

Well thank God you’re not her boyfriend cause some people... actually most people understand that it’s totally normal and it’s part of human nature to find other people attractive. Like imagine thinking there is only ONE attractive person in this whole world while everyone else is okay- or ugly... can’t relate.

[crazy_one01]

@Joker8 she's not screwing him. She hasn't been unfaithful. She simply appreciates the attractiveness of someone else. She hasn't dug her grave. As I said.. we are all human.. it's normal to admire someone else. Guys do it all the time.. whether it's a celebrity or some hot chick at the gym/grocery store etc.

[Joker8]

@smoothiekisses137 well I did this and I believed my girlfriend is the only beautiful girl in this world... it's not that hard if your really in love...@crazy_one01 our brains are equipped with abilities to recognize that something is fucked up and disgusting so we shouldn't even think about... like having sex with your brother... it's fucking disgusting and no one would like to imagine it... same here but on a different scale... she should recognize that it's fucked up stop thinking about it

[Joker8]

@crazy_one01

[Smoothiekisses137]

You’re the first and only person I’ve seen that has this kind of mindset. But hey whatever dude.

[Joker8]

@Smoothiekisses137 yup I know I'm weird compared to guys these days but I respect your point of view

[frankcan]

I mean we all have eyes and can see other people... you are not property of anyone

[Hagashi]

That's a normal thing. Ain't really bad. Just don't get any funny ideas

[Runner303]

No he has probably thought about splitting your moms arsehole open... so don't worry

[Anonymous]

Then that means that you are a whore!

[Asker]

Joking?

[Opinion Owner]

Hey just ask! I have the freedom to tell you what you what I think.

[Asker]

Well, if that makes me one then so be it.

[therapisttiana]

Pfffftttthahahhahahah

[Opinion Owner]

@therapisttiana Yeah that's right she is a PUTA ! Lol

[Anonymous]

the inmate breeds the asylum, your family is likely just as insane... as you are

[ScaryCool]

This is why I worry...

for my brother 😎

[venelopeduck]

That's fine, just don't fuck him please.

[Elvis_Long]

No its just an observation

[Anonymous]

#whore

[JP_Man]

What kind of useless childish bullying is that. This is not a tribune for such behavior.

[therapisttiana]

😄yasboo

[vald9inches]

Its natural

[Winterlady]

No but little creepy

[zagor]

Normal.

[imaghost11]

Uuuıuwww lol

[yourfutureboyfriend]

Seriously? WTF

[Revolver_]

Not bad

[JP_Man]

It's not bad.

[Anonymous]

No. Fuck the guy.