You are definitely quite the opposite. I think that guys definitely do get intimidated by very attractive girls for a variety of factors. It could be that he thinks that you are too pretty to not have a boyfriend and doesn’t want to waste his time asking you out. They could have several failures in the past and they decided to give up for a while. They might think that your attractiveness vastly outshines them and give up because they might think that you are not afraid to tell them to get lost right on the spot and look down on them (again probably due to experience). They night think that they are way out of their league and if they “get lucky” and “score” a date with you, no matter how nicely you treat them they might get depressed because they might feel like they do not deserve you (experience of mine thankfully I mostly got over that). They might have had an abusive relationship or an abusive mother in the past and are constantly on edge whenever they are around a girl. Unless you are known for being mean to any man who dares to approach, It mostly boils down to experience and confidence. I would try going up to a man and ask him out yourself. Even if current circumstances get in the way, like being already taken, he at the very least would feel flattered that you asked.
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It honestly sounds like you're trying too hard and scaring away any potential interests.
Ease up on the make-up and let it compliment your features rather than be your features.
Be happy with yourself. You can't change your features, so get to know you and appreciate you for you.
Do stuff you like doing because you like doing it, and you'll naturally meet other people who like doing those things.
Don't give gifts to try attract someone. You can't buy love, only pleasure.
Just slow things right down and love yourself properly first. Being with someone doesn't make you happy if you aren't happy in yourself, it just puts an incredible amount of pressure that no other person can possibly achieve.
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You think you got it bad. I'm 35 and single. Women older than me don't want me. My own age doesn't want me. And the younger ones say I'm too old. Your a very beautiful woman. Some of it could be the guys your going after. If your after just looks alone and stuff your just gonna keep getting dicked around. I'm not picky. I treat women with respect and dignity. Like I was raised to. But apparently women seem to want guys that treat them like shit and complain about it in front of decent guys that are looking for someone to love them. And we sit there like hey, I'm right here. But you'll never know because you won't give them the time of day.
You definitely are not ugly. I'm sorry you feel this way and I know the feeling of seeing everyone else around you be happy with another person and not having anyone yourself to share that with. It is very disheartening and makes you feel really undesirable. Unfortunately I can't say the magic words to take away your frustration, depression and loneliness. I will say this however. The time you spend be single and getting to know yourself means that you will appreciate the person who accepts you for you when you actually find each other. Oh and "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" 😊 chin up girl. It hurts but it hasn't killed you
First of all, god isn't doing anything to you.
It sounds like you are very motivated and hell bent on making a good life for yourself.
So much so that a lot of guys are going to be intimidated as fuck by this because well, the world is full of slackers today.
You have some steep competition because the good men that are out there are not only in demand by womeb like you who are driven, but also by the gold diggers, every woman wants a good man and those are in short supply, especially in socal where you have a huge single female population because of the movie industry.
The best thing you can do is socialize as much as possible and continue hard after your goals.Who said anything about God doing this to you?
Also, guys get intimidated by beautiful women.
Don't compare your journey to others.
Fucking live your life and don't waste your time waiting for some strangers approval. Give yourself that approval, adoration and affection.Sounds like you wait for your dreamguy to approach you, while you sit there, do your studies and eat alone.
Ever thaught about approaching a guy? Ask a man for a date, if you want to. Do not stay passively and expect things magically happening around you.I was alone til 21. That was a mistake. I gave a second girl a chance after a few years. That was a mistake. I've been single ever since. Be patient. You're intimidating. I wouldn't approach you. Too beautiful. Some guys will. Your husband will in time. Men are nothing to cry over. Not that important.
To be perfectly fair, your face is not that pretty in my opinion. I would not go as far as to call you ugly though.
Thing is, all what you have said are good and well, but you walk the same shoe as most guys. If there is no chemistry, you can do nothing.
Now. My advice is to care less. People can smell the cringe of wanting somebody badly from miles. Be haopy with yourself and with what you do and like minded people will come along.I'm sure lots of guy wouldn't find you ugly, work on your self esteem, you look just fine to me.
stop asking for a boyfriend. it might be bad for you for now. this is why u can't have boyfriend for now. you might be so obsessed with him and might do bad in your previous jobs. when u reach a good point in life, you will have boyfriend easily
Damn your hot... I'll be your boyfriend assuming you don't have a dick... That's the deciding factor for me... If you got webbed toes, cool, fat ass, cooler, weird birthmark, cool to, but I draw the line at dicks...
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