I’m in a dilemma here , me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot over me not trusting him. He doesn’t think what he has done is bad. Basically , I found out by other sources with evidence that he has said this : “ I don’t have no one “, “ I can buy you and your friend roses 🙈” , “ I took those pictures 🙈” , “ I can show you the color of my boxers at your house 🙈” , I confronted him about this , and all he said was “ I was just joking “ “ the girl who I said those things too has a boyfriend “ then he said “ she is going out with my brother” but then said “ she is my brothers girlfriend “. I even have the evidence of the things he posted too “ like a French person said I wanna f*ck you baby “ , “ pov when she sends you pictures of her face without asking “. Daniel doesn’t find anything that he does wrong and even told me that he doesn’t know if he should stay or leave because I don’t change because” I don’t trust him “ . How should I not have a reason not to with that he has done.
He clearly doesn't care he is hurting you since he keeps doing these things.. It is gonna hurt majorly if you love him, but I think you should probably break up since he isn't respecting you or considering your feelings. His actions are painting the picture that he doesn't love you since he isn't worried about losing you.
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He is trash. Get out now before it becomes more difficult. He doesn't respect or value you, he was clearly testing the waters with this other girl and he either already has or will do the same with someone else, if not worse. Leave him, he's just an immature man-child with a lot of growing up to do.
Most women who don't "love" their man, won't be able to say it back, or, they'll say it, in a way that sounds forced. If you can't do it, or if it feels forced, you shouldn't stay with him
The question is, why. Why can't you say you love him, or a forced "i love you". That's why I don't know what "love" really is
Only you can decide this. If you think he cheated, don’t stay with him
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He just wants to fuck other girls. Almost all guys do so no big deal. However, if you are not happy with him, find another boyfriend. For girls your age, that is very easy. It may take a week or two and maybe a couple of months to find one you want to keep.
He is immature. Not ready for a relationship. Sorry, sounds like you like him. It isn't worth your energy. Most guys in their early 20s are dumb like this and shouldn't be taken seriously because they aren't.
Either he cheated and you should leave him, or he didn't cheat, and you don't trust him, meaning you should leave him.
Either way the outcome is the same. Without trust and loyalty, relationships fail.A man in a relationship, who is intent on keeping that relationship, does not make comments like those towards other girls.
Why is he your boyfriend if you don't trust him?
Is he willing to get married within the next 3-6 months? If not, then whatever...
Men are not to be trusted, period.
He sounds like the prefect guy for you.
Get rid of this shit bird guy
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