Father's if there is any? How do you find out your little girl has become a women and accept it?

[MissTrix]

My sister got married a year ago my father still won't accept she is a women and just pregnant.

Our loves change and grow. The little girl gets slwdg behind.

So how do some dads accept it while some don't?

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So thanks for commenting

[ohsheeT]

I have a son and daughter.. down deep in my heart they will all ways be my baby's.
But there is a time and a place for everything.

The time and place is when they were that age. There no way in this world in this moment of time that I would treat them that way. Since day one I have bought them to be the best they can be .. my dream was and I'd to teach them to be better than me .

And it might sound cold . but it's not. If I was to treat them as if they were located. Then that's what they would be right now.

If they have a problem they call me. They talk to me about everything.. I cannot tell them what to do. I can only project Scenarios to them. The way that I see. it. Then they have to use their own head.

My son is 6 foot 7.
Is a fireman paramedic? Is big buff strong? Good looking boy. But man. We could be in a crowded parking lot full of people and if we see.
You will yell to me, daddy.
Walk up to me give me the biggest bear hug
He doesn't care who sees it. Who hears it because he knows who he is

My daughter Is beautiful smart wise And she will do the same thing she will walk up Give me the biggest hug If I was walking into the store she will Put her hand in my hand and walk with me

But I mean don't get me wrong. If something was to happen to them they would become my baby's my kids

But day to day life.
I treat them as my equal

[MissTrix]

Sounds great I know a lot of parents have a hard time being equals till their kids are putting them in senior homes.

[ohsheeT]

I didn't really know my dad and and I moved out of my mom's house when I.
16 and a 1/2. I mean, if she ever needed any help. Or or Christmas Thanksgiving dinner I would see her. She would have dinner or my app would have dinner
But my mom only knew.
Me on the rumors that I started Or family members Would say about me whether they were true or false

My mom was living with my sister and she called me To come pick her up. I won't go into details butTo come pick her up. I won't go into details, but. I did. She told me what was going on and she wanted me to help her find a place to live.
She has dementia alzheimer's So I could not do that.
I told her she could Move in with me
And that's the one thing that I promised her I would not put her in a home.. And the last Eighteen months of her life was the hardest thing I have ever had to go through in my life I would not wish it all my worst enemy
It totally changed my life
Raising my kids was easier Then Knowing your parent as a strong individual, just a very, very good person.
Turning into a child and then having to raise them. From an adult to a child, it was very hard.
There were so many times where I hated it.
But. It wasn't about me. And the last 18 months of her life my life stopped. I had to make a choice.
From day one.
And my word was my word even though I just about lost everything.
But out of the whole experience.
I brought her something to eat and drink. And she said I just want to thank you, you Are one of the best people I've ever met in my life. You are the kindest sweetest, most caring person. That a mother could ever ask for.

And with my kids, I don't care what they did. They knew that I felt the same way about them since they were one years old to this day. But it was nice to hear that. Because she thought that I was completely different. Which I always thought was kinda funny.

[MissTrix]

Thanks for sharing
Who said you were the most caring kinky person. Your kids mom?

[ohsheeT]

Haha. Voice texting. . That was supposed to say most caring kind person.. no it was my mom. My whole family truly never knew who I wand after taking care of my mom
About the person in my family that kinda new me was my aunt.. and my brother But even they didn't really know me in a lot of ways

[MissTrix]

Sorry they never knew you! Yeah voice texting messes me up a lot too

[MissTrix]

Bet mostly your gfs knew that side of you not family

[ohsheeT]

I keep telling myself.
To stop voice texting.
Because sometimes I'll re read it 2 days later and say. Wtf. Lmao

[ohsheeT]

Yes girl friends and friends new me better than my family

[slatyb]

Some fathers think they own their children.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Ignorance is bliss.

[Pet68]

Except it never is.

[seeyounexttuesday]

@Pet68 except when it is.

[CubaPirate]

I only have son I can't help

[Anonymous]

I am not a father.