My Brother - IN LAW - is obsessed with me?

[Anonymous]

I have a half sister I was not close with growing up. when I turned 24, she had her first baby with her abusive husband, who I never met until then, he was always beating her up, cheated on her the night she had my nephew, and that's all I'll share but you get the gist. My dad on the other hand thinks he is gods creation because he is very wealthy, but a huge gambler, drug addict and alcoholic, so my brother in law is 100% of the time unpredictable. After the birth of my first nephew and then a second nephew, my brother in law kept assuring that I should be part of the family and come with my dad and my mom ( my half sisters step mom) to their house on family occasions, which I did, and every time I was sexually harassed, by him and his friends, then he started taking his social media to stalk me, and zoom into pictures of my breasts and butt, my sister started getting upset, and I sooner than later left the relationship with my family. this is 2019. My brother in law also tried to get his guy friends to sleep with me, he jumped in my bed naked as well, wanted me to sleep in his bed, and also continued crazy behavior until I again, walked away in 2019 and said hell with all these whackos.

Recently my half sister has been trying to get into my life again after maybe she realized she's bored, no clue, and I have stayed AWAY , the other day my brother in law comes WALTZING into my new home with my dad, and I was horrified, uncomfortable, and totally in shock.. he brought my half sister as well. I made everyone coffee and just stood there.. nothing really was said for one hour, at one point he went missing and he was in my bedroom, looking at my things and my bathroom / bed, shortly after they left, and I never heard from him again UNTIL tonight I find out he took my father out to dinner, who lives with me as he just had a heart attack. I feel really uncomfortable that he's trying to enter my life again and I don't know what to do - yes I ignore but I feel violated.

[Hobobobo]

You have described a very disturbing situation with an individual who seems dangerous as if he might attack and rape you if he sees a potential opportunity or vulnerability.

But this isn't a question. Do you have a question regarding this troubling situation?

[Anonymous]

Need to mix his drugs with something

An associate used to mix caustic soda into 'caine if he was looking to send a message, never failed

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a real creep.

[Asker]

its horrible. and I feel disgusted my father is at dinner with him right now I want to shoot through the roof in rage. trying to keep it in control.

[Anonymous]

You should feel honored that he is taking an interest in you.

[Asker]

I am not honored its an obsession, he also told his parents he should of married me and the most sick thing is this is all UNSOLICITED ; I have not spoken to this man until last week since before covid!

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should give him a chance. He feels a connection with you.

[Hobobobo]

@asker You are responding to a troll, or this is potentially your brother in law trying to be sneaky and convince you to sleep with him. It would be best to ignore such comments in the future for the sake of your own mental well-being.

[Opinion Owner]

@Hobobobo I am by far a troll nor her brother-in-law trying to be sneaky as you put it. I am simply stating she needs to explore the possible connection between them. So, until you have all the facts, stop making false assumptions about me.

[Anonymous]

You can always get a restraining order

[MasterKS]

This asshole is sounds like a rapist to me.