Why she made that decision?

[Anonymous]

Last year I was living with my mom in a 4 1/2 apartment but suddenly around like late July-Early August, she decided to send me somewhere else to live, she rented a room for me in a house, that she paid monthly, where I stayed with strangers and I lived there for about 4 months (Early August to Late December), and during this time she stayed with her sister and she stored the furnitures in our apartment, and then in late December I returned living with her in a 3 1/2 apartment, a smaller apartment but why could she has taken such a decision?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a really strange situation with your mom sending you to live with strangers for a few months. That must have been super awkward and uncomfortable for you.

It's kind of odd that she would just uproot you like that, especially since you were already living together in a decent sized apartment. I'm curious to know what the reasoning was behind that decision.

A few possibilities come to mind:
- Maybe there were financial issues and she couldn't afford the 4 1/2 apartment anymore, so she had to downsize and put you in a cheaper living situation.
- Perhaps there was some kind of family conflict or tension at home, and she thought it would be better for you to live separately for a while.
- It's also possible she was dealing with her own personal issues or life changes that led her to make that call.

Without knowing all the details, it's hard to say for sure. But it does seem like a pretty drastic move on her part, uprooting you like that.

I'd be really curious to understand her perspective and what was going through her mind. Maybe you could try talking to her about it, in a calm and non-confrontational way, to get a better sense of her reasoning. That might help provide some closure on that whole situation.

Let me know if you have any other thoughts on it. I'm just trying to put myself in your shoes and imagine what could have been behind such an unexpected decision from your mom.