There was a girl I really love. Well I always think of her as my unrequited love. She is a coworker but we don't meet everyday. Once I confessed to her, asked her for a date and she laughed at me. Few days later she texted me and asked me if I still want to date her, but she didn't accept me nor reject me at that time. She wanted to know me better first, I knew she wasn't ready for a new relationship, I think she wasn't move on yet from her ex. But I was ok with that.
We had a good time and convo, but one month later she decided to reject me. I was really hurt but I respected her decision. I went no contact and 2 weeks later she called me again and in the end she said she miss me. I was angry to her and said to her "do you want to play with my feelings? Don't call me anymore unless it has something to do with works" then she walked away and she called all of my friends why I did that and she asked them what's wrong with me lol.
Few days later she texted me again and asked me for the 2nd chance to know me better. I was shocked with her behavior and wow, ok I accepted it finally. I started from the beginning, accepted her again, took care of her and everything until once I showed a jealousy due to her social media posts. I felt insecure at the time and she didn't accept it. We had great arguments but I apologized in the end and she didn't accept it.
So I went no contact (again) for 2 weeks and I broke it finally because I missed her, and I apologized to her sincerely (again and again) but she won't forgive me and she asked me to leave finally, she said I deserve someone better because she cares for me etc. Well ok, then I finally walked away, I didn't care anymore, I was so sad, I did my best though.
It's been more than a month, I tried to avoid all of her online activities but she still stalks mine until now, and she still keep in touch with my friends. Is she keeping tabs on me? What for? Thank you!
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